We all dream movie like love stories, the problem is that real life is a bit different from movies, especially as an adult. You have jobs and life commitments, at the end of the day you have to learn and adapt together if you want it to work long term.
Being online H24 texting doesn’t help either because you end up talking on the phone all day and have no topics to talk about in person, and also, you get tons of fake distractions from other people on social media that will try to ruin the relationship both sides.
At the end it is all about the quality time you spend together.
Ironically, having a long distance relationship where you meet once every 2 weeks nowadays is more intense, but it’ll crumble the moment you move in together when you really get to know who’s in the house with you, sad but it is what it is.
I agree, being able to communicate about the problems and actually doing everything we are saying is why we are still together and actually managing okay. This is the most healthiest relationship I have ever been. He did break up with me because of the monotony and when I did talk about the things he did see it clearly