I guess we all hope that for all the loved ones who have gone, espeially if they have gone prematurely.
I tend to feel like that about a niece who was murder. She was very young. Sometimes I call my sister and ask about her other daughters and have to stop myself from mentioning her name.
Censorship is a form of mourning
<3 thank you, I hadn't thought, but that is probably part of it - people who should still be here but aren't. I want to hug you, thank you so much, you are right.