Yes, I completely agree. It seems like it should be easy to make different choices and find different paths than the ones that appear to be laid out for us, but it can be incredibly difficult. I know it was for me!
The right conditions have to be met for us to be able to break through that window from where we're at to where we can actually go. Not everyone will make it, but everyone wonders if their life is all that will ever be.
Well said!
Thank you @jayna