Author Richard Rohr talks about the 2 halfs of our lives. In the first half we build our container. We label who we are and who we want to be... In the 2nd half we step outside our container and just Be who we are..
Most of us have been conditioned to think that the way it works is to Have, then Do, Then we can Be... The truth is Be who we are, Do what comes natural and then we will Have everything
Those are true words. They often say we're soaking up everything until we're 40 or something and then we become our true selves.
I hope it won't take that long, though. I am who I am and I'll do what I do. Hopefully, I'll become better too.