Maybe you can have it all. It sounds like you don’t give yourself enough space and love and when you don’t love yourself, love from another person itches and feels awkward and uncomfortable at some point. Maybe you just aren’t in the right mindset for monogamy and it’s ok to play til you find someone who is riding the same wave you are, and it’s ok to change the relationship when the wave Changes man. No need to be so hard on yourself!
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Gee, thanks, that's actually a pretty good way of seeing it. I do tend to go hard on myself and I suppose I summon circumstances that reinforce this (like every song, movie and conversation dances around the same ideas for a long time). But you're right and I'm grateful for your simplifying of the issue, for it does not need to be complex.