Adolescence was a challenging period of my life.
The ever-changing developments in my body and mind were difficult to calculate.
A pre-internet era, inadequate library resources, an absence of anyone I felt comfortable to talk to, and guidance counsellors whose best suggestions were rehearsed Bible scriptures.
Hence, my independent nature led me to tackle my personal challenges, with my own resources:
I discovered the benefits of laughter.
Laughter Was My Emotional Response To Stress
As a little girl, I was keen on simple arithmetic. So, at the tip of my tongue, my response to my favourite subject in school, was Mathematics.
Arithmetic and Algebra, oh yay!
Geometry and Trigonometry?🙄 Holy crap!
"My brain is full!" I'd cry to my teacher.
My head ached disproportionately from trying to compute Math problems.
In my mind, my brain had swollen to capacity for explosion.
This caused me to develop a brain block for Math; sadly, a permanent one.
To cope through my difficulties with Math, I discovered the effective use of laughter for pain.
So effective was laughter, I became addicted to it. I was reliant on laughter for all subjects and teachers who in my evaluation, were extemporary in their preparation to relate their specialised subjects to me.
In front row, always, right behind the teacher, I would giggle at selected teachers first spoken word, followed by uncontrollable laughter.
Hysterically, I would belly laugh and stimulate hilarity in the class.
A train of contagious laughter would disrupt the class, with no intent to subside; all classmates would laugh with, and at me.
With my reputed laughter stunts, I was ranked a grade "A" troublemaker, by my teachers.
Imagine, class detentions for laughing? 😜 😝
That was a nudge, which made me laugh harder. 🤣 😂
Disgruntled teachers took their frustrations out on my report card.
For my third year of high school, teachers rated my overall performance as "poor", and I was forced to repeat that year of studies.
Accordingly, my repeat year found me laughing less.
I took responsibility, and my performance improved.
Life Without Laughter
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Early adulthood saw me taking a consequential approach to life, and my professional years of high responsibilities made me approach life too seriously.
I lost my ability to laugh and see the humorous side of everything. I became worrisome, anxious, and short-fused in my quest for perfection.
Diffusing tension became a difficult task, and the happy carefree girl I loved had become a straight face, and I didn't like "her".
Without laughter, I experienced stress in different forms: Physically, emotionally, and mentally. I felt like I was existing, and I wanted to live again.
Acknowledging A Problem
There was no denying that I'd fallen prey to misery.
- Negative self talk
- Forcing myself to stay positive, instead of accepting different emotions
- Non-fulfilment in any tasks.
- Demotivated and feeling like giving up.
Regaining Control Of My Life
I feared I'd completely lost myself.
However, I tackled my problems introspectively and objectively.
I was brutally honest with the new over-serious version of myself, which I hated, and I yearned to retrieve the playful, mischievous, light-hearted version of myself, which I loved.
I needed to find my way back to my inner child.
Tracing That Missing Persona
Reverting to live happily like I did in my childhood days, was something I instinctively believed only I had the power to do.
It was like searching for the switch in the dark.
It took effort, determination, willpower, and self belief.
The light bulb moment came on a walk down memory lane:
'Where did I find my inner strength to channel me during my hardest years?'
- Laughter
- Nature
- Physical Activities
Sitting at my desk in the corridor leading to my living room, I stared at my computer screen. Reflecting, I felt my heart pumping like my cardio had kicked in without physical activity. As a big smile formed on my face, and like time travel, I found myself laughing into a tizzy. I was reliving the moments I used my laughter mischievously as a survival tool weapon against my teachers.
I tapped deeper into my childhood memories, and I recalled playing cricket and hopscotch in the streets, cycling through make-shift obstacle courses, my vertical jumps as a goalkeeper, spending days in nature on open fields, admiring the roots of strong trees, climbing fences to pick any fruit in sight, watching birds fly wishing I had wings to go wherever I wanted, and being that charming, notoriously feisty little girl, who everyone loved to hate, and hated to love.
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I rekindled my love with nature and the outdoors.
Cycling along the streets of a land similar to the one I grew up, brought back memories of me on my bicycle; Speedily, I often rode hands-free behind my neck, with my knees tucked into to my chest.
I also delved into yoga and identified many of the movements were comparable to ones I did naturally as a child.
Happiness and I collided.
Connecting more dots, I associated my "tizzy stunts" (as my admiring classmates called it), to the uncanny resemblance to Laughter Yoga.
Laughter Therapy.
"A type of therapy that uses humour to help relieve pain and stress and improve a person’s sense of well-being. It may be used to help people cope with a serious disease, such as cancer. Laughter therapy may include laughter exercises, clowns, and comedy movies, books, games, and puzzles. It is a type of complementary therapy. Also called humor therapy."
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In essence, Laughter Therapy is a positive psychology.
Personally, Laughter Therapy and my alternative practices are like coming full circle.
When my world feels like it's upside down, I take it in stride.
Now, I use laughter in a positive way, which enables me to put things into perspective.
I also understand the importance of letting emotions flow, and remember that as the world turns, there'll be bumps, hurdles and rough patches that we will have to face.
Laughter Yoga can be an optional exercise in Laughter Therapy. Laughter Therapy itself involves one-to-one sessions with clients to have an assessment and get to know a client on a level which will allow the client to find their way back to doing things that make them laugh.
What I've Learned About Laughter:
Is laughter always positive?
No!
If laughter is used in a negative way, it can isolate people. If laughter is used against a person in a bad way, it can cause insecurity and make one question their self worth.
Laughter can be soul-destroying if used with malice.
On the positive side:
- The body doesn't know the difference between fake and real laughter, the benefits are the same, so you can fake laughter, and it will still be beneficial to the body.
- With practice, the mind can be trained to have a natural reaction of seeing the humourous side of everything.
- Laughter and humour are different: Humour is the trigger for laughter, and laughter is the reaction to humour.
- Laughter is not about humour, but about communication. Laughter is so important that it evolved with us as human beings, because it is good for relationships, communication, and well-being.
- The relief theory of humour is believed that when we respond to emotional situations with humour, it relieves tension, and helps to alleviate a psychological drain effect that tension can cause on the body.
- Laughter helps to release endorphins (natural pain killers in the body).
- Laughter is linked to our cardiovascular system: The CVS, pumps blood around the body, the reason it's called the circulatory system. Our bodies need oxygen, food, and nutrients to survive. The cardiovascular system or the circulatory system consist of the heart, veins, capillaries, and arteries. When we breathe, and eat, we need to get oxygen, blood, and nutrients circulating around our bodies to stay alive. This is the role of the cardiovascular system, which is all affected by laughter. Laughter regulates our blood pressure. The heart is the central pump of the circulatory system in the entire body, thus when we laugh, our blood pressure rises, then it takes the blood pressure down to a totally relaxed state afterwards. This state of relaxation is good for the heart, veins, and arteries (the entire body on a whole).
This makes laughter the best medicine.
Laughter Yoga has become more popular in recent years, and it is offered in some hospitals, elderly homes, prisons, and for people recovering from series illnesses. The reason is, Laughter Yoga is beneficial for improving circulation, and activating acupressure points. It is good for eye and muscle coordination, and the deep breathing it requires helps to pump oxygen throughout the body. Most importantly, laughter is free, and it's an innate ability of humans, which if practiced regularly, can help to promote better health and well-being.
My Fake, Laughter Yoga Video:
🔭Please! Laugh With Me, or At Me
@holos-lotus This post is my submission to the Humour and Laughter Challenge #LaughterIsMedicine Challenge hosted by the Natural Medicine Community.
I've always loved laughing.
Once I laughed so hard, I "unhinged" my jaw bones.
I live the benefits of Laughter and would encourage and love to help anyone to incorporate laughter into their healing and well-being practices.
I actually do "serious" laughter yoga sessions that include: clapping, chanting, and deep breathing exercises. This video was created specially for the humour and laughter challenge by the community. (Just for a laugh)🤣
Hello @bearmol, I'd like to invite you for this challenge!
I had so much fun with your fake yoga video and the neighbors so serious and distant while you were laughing and having so much fun, it's lovely. Certainly laughter is the best way to get through the days and we should always try to find that humorous side to our lives. Good luck in the contest. I'm going to see what I can learn from your laughter yoga class besides laughing. Regards.
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Hello @fragozar01
Thank you for your kind feedbck and wishes 🤗
I'm happy you found my video funny. My intention was to do an actual laughter yoga session, as the board walk was a comfortable setting. However, there was too much noise from boat engines, which affected the sound. So I just laughed it off and did a free flow laughter and dubbed it instead:)
I thought the guys in the background made it a proper "fake laughter yoga", because the irony is that with real laughter yoga, it is so contagious, that it draws people in to either laugh with you or at you.
Thank you for dropping by, and I hope you'll find away to incorporate laughter, by seeing the humourous side of things.
Have a great day!
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Hello Ms. @millycf1976 I'm learning so much about you from your post. From the pictures it appears you went to a very good school and are from a closely knit (no pun intended) family.
I found your video quite amusing. I can't imagine what the guys in the background were thinking when they saw you.lol
Keep laughing and smiling sistren.
I accept your challenge but I'm not sure when I'll find the time to make a 300 word post about this awesome medicine called laughter 🤣
Thanks for your kind feedback @bearmol:) Yeah, I guess the guys at the back didn't know what to think of it. My action sure took 2 of them by surprise, and I think the other one thought it best to pretend he didn't know me 🤣🤣
Yes, we went to Mannings and there's only a year age gap between each of us, which made many think we were triplets, especially when dressed identical.
I noticed Memery hasn't been active on Hive...I hope she's well! I would have invited her to the challenge too :) I hope you get around to sharimg your humourous story!;)
Oh gosh that's what I used to do at school! I'm.pretty sure my laughter was an inabilty to restrain my other emotions, which I didn't know what to do with as they don't teach or support emotional intelligence at school.
Laughter and nature... two of life's greatest treasures! A beautiful post. 😘
That video made me laugh the more I watched it. You are so funny! What canal are you on there? I have friends on the Kennett and Avon and loved our stay on a narrow boat in the first lockdown last year.
Thank you so much 😘
The things we endured and have overcome 🙏🏾😘🤗
@riverflows Sorry, I only just saw this question:)...we are on the Birmingham - Fazeley Canal. It's so beautiful. We've moored up for a few days just exploring the area.
@scubahead mentioned your stay on a narrowboat...I bet it was something different for you. It will be hard for us to leave this lifestyle behind.
We're planning to visit Kennett and Avon at some point!
I'm glad you found my video funny 😂
Oh how fantastic!!! Are you just staying there for a holiday or do you live permanently on the canals? We used to live as new travellers, and knew quite a few from that scene that ended up on boats.
We live permanently as continuous cruisers exploring the canal network.
It's such an awesome feeling to live and experience this side of the UK.
The boating community is friendly, helpful, and courteous one :)
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@millycf1976 Yes I love laughter it is a key. I always watch comedy shows and night before I go to bed for good laugh I laugh at myself all the time, thank you I appreciate your insight.
Hello @divinebeingness thanks for your kind feedback. I'm pleased you appreciate the power of laughter :)
Wishing you a lovely day!
Great post! It has been a long journey full of experiences and healing experiences through laughter. Thank you for sharing this part of your story and for highlighting all the benefits of laughter.
Wonderful fake yoga class 😃
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Thank you for your kind feedback and appreciation of my work 😁
I'm happy you enjoyed the video too😆
Have a great day!
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Love that video so funny. I love that the guys behind you are not reacting to what you're doing haha.
Haha! Thank you🤣
Sheeez woman! Thank goodness that now I know about your issues with math & laugther. So, if one day we meet in person, I will have extreme care to not ask you ¿how many is two plus two?
Well, unless I want to get brutally hit with your wild laughter... };)
On other hand, let me tell you that in that compilation of 4 photos that you posted above... Sheeez, again... ¡You looks gorgeous there little lady! So, thinking about your math issue twice. Uhm, in case we meet one day in person... Perhaps it's not such a bad idea if I bombard you with heap of math problems anyway. Hahahaha
Haha! Thanks for your kind compliments and funny reply.
Just seeing the word Math makes me giggle😂
Mathematicians impress me, because I know we're poles apart, and I think "differences"😅 make the world more beautiful.
Thanks for stopping by, have a lovely day!🙏
Yeah, I started college studying math initially. But then I ended up as a physicist. Prolly the same weird animal, but with a different cap. Hahahaha
So, just to warm up and see beforehand how lethal and dangerous you can be with your fearsome laughter in case of a future close encounter of the third kind. Let me throw you here now this mathematical curiosity just to calibrate you better from the safety of the distance. ;D
Thanks for your charming reply, have a lovely and non-stop smiling weekend! 🙏
Haha, that's so funny!
My husband is excellent at Math, so I throw all Math problems at him:)
I'm t a fan of Accounting,but I love Economics. Oh, and I hate computer problems too.
Congrats on your journey of becoming at Physicist👏👍:) That could not have been easy!
Very original, I love it! Your smile and laugh are infectious. Did the folks in the background know what you were doing? I imagine they might've been a bit puzzled if they didn't.
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Thank you very much.😊
No, folks around had no idea what I was doing. I think they were, and are still puzzled🤣
I just laughed and left.🤣
I bet they're still dying with laughter wondering what that was all about.😂🤣
It has been a great post, the experiences shared have been very important because we can appreciate the adverse effects that can occur when we turn our backs on laughter and good humor. I'm glad you have found your way back to being yourself.
The yoga class was fabulous!
Hello @miriannalis
Many thank for your kind feedback. I'm happy you appreciate my post, and enjoyed the video. Wishing you a lovely Sunday and a great week ahead! 💐
Hello @luca1777 😆 Indeed! This photo brought back such lovely memories and made me wonder where the time has gone :)
Thank you for the kind feedback.
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