This is super important. And I think some people don't realize that not everyone is motivated the same. I often see motivational posts online that say something like, "They told me I couldn't, so I proved to them I could!!" like others being cruel and having no faith in them, motivated them. I'm the opposite. If I'm trying to accomplish something and no one has any faith in me, I feel like, well everyone already has decided I will fail, why even try, no one believes in me at all. It doesn't make me say "I'll show them!" it makes me just feel terrible and worthless. When people try and do reverse psychology on me I would always quit. And my parents never figured out that putting me down actually ...put me down, instead of motivated me. I needed someone to say, "I believe in you, you can work really hard and do well!" but I always got, "you're just going to mess it up, you're wasting your time, don't aim so high."
!BEER
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Hi there @phoenixwren. I can actually relate to you. I don't know what kind of creatures they are because some were too insensitive when they comment on us. They don't feel how it gave pressure on us. It just simply shows that they don't know how to appreciate. Let's always remember that not all they have we got and not all of them got what we have. !Cheers