I agree sis. Singleness is not a disease. The pressure of marriage is too much to be borne by weak minds in old flesh bags.
I think the way to curb pressure is to be pop and plain with the elders. Let them know that except they want to carry your corpse, they should hold on and allow
you choose rightly.
Many married women are praying to be single or even widowed.
Recently, I heard from a colleague of mine, how her pastor's stood on the pulpit to preach and he said that it is anytime he offends his wife or they are having a misunderstanding that he would demand for sexual conjugation and his wife has no choice but to submit and agree .
Sis, you need to see the way holy anger rose up from within me and I told my colleague that the pastor is a rapist.
I'm sure the wife might be regretting being married to him but she can't say or express it.
Life can be untamed and so one must be very careful