Those arguments actually will not take us anywhere. Because they way we grew up with rooted culture and tradition, the realization and efforts to be change comes very late.
Even after becoming exception, the exceptions are one in a thousands, rather make it difficult to live amidst the usuals. So eventually, they die alone if they entirely refuse to compromise with an already compromised expection.
Or, accept someone who partly fulfills perhaps making only more lonely.
As a non conformist at heart, I refuse to let any rooted cultures to take hold of control of my personal life. It already has everything else. At least I want to keep this for myself.
As I said, exceptionals are not fully capable of flourishing because we live in a society of defiance and unacceptance.
You may not let yourself be affected, but when there is a question of bonding it is indeed still hard to find and bond.
I didn't say I am not affected. I am very much affected. Like a cyclone, or an earthquake that shatters my world. Bonding is never guaranteed, and just because you find someone, doesn't mean they find you.