Good day friends, I like being around kids and I like their curiosity and questions. Sometimes they ask questions which is above their age or level. They always want to know what is happening in their environment. I believe it's a good thing to be around them and give counselling and help them grow.
There are some parents who will never stay at home during day to stay with their kids, they prefer to give the kids to the neighbors till they are back late in the evening everyday. Some parents leaves the house early in the morning and return late. These kids are being exposed to abuse from neighbors. Children need proper care and love. Some believe once they pay the school fees, provide cloths and food, the children are fine.
My parents are both teachers in the Secondary Schools and my mum retired as a school principal and my dad was a school principal before he died some years back. My dad makes sure we read our books every day, he sits with us while reading. Everyone in the house will read all the subjects taught in school for that day. He makes sure we have time for everything at home, there is time to play, watch TV, and time to read and study. My dad asks questions from each subject when there is test or examinations. I love that energy and drive he gives us towards making us successful.
My dad was a Farmer, he makes sure we are also exposed to different farming methods. We have Crop Plantations and Poultry. All these have build us to become what we are today. All of us can farm and rear animals due to the experience we gathered from my dad. Parents have a great deal of work to do and make sure the children are well trained and brought up.
There are some women who doesn't have time to take care of the home and the kids, some have handed over the kids to nanny in which some of the kids are being abused and molested by the Nannys. Mothers Should create time and make their children have motherly love and care and teach them what they need to know about life and their body development. There are parents who forgets their Childrens birthday because of their right schedule and money. I have seen some kids who have rich parents but they are drug addicts now because they have been negleted from childhood. Parents keep flying from one country to another without having time to nurse their children properly.
Children who have parental care and love grow well into their adulthood and they are always free with their parents to ask any questions they feel like and no one will be able to manipulate them.
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Johnolusegun
Thank you for sharing your story. I agree it’s very important to spend as much time as possible with the kids. You want them to learn your lessons in life instead of learning the lessons from others you might not prefer.
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