This opportunity take this opportunity to reflect on some key points in the management and I treat our childhood stage and contribute meaningful experiences about some positive phrases that every child should hear because we know that both situations are not easy, for this reason some specialists consider it so important to educate parents and children in equal parts
The education strategy for parents consists of teaching them verbal, gestural and paraverbal behaviors - tones, shapes, rhythms, etc. - that help them to communicate assertively with their children, since children usually learn through the imitation of behaviors from his parents.
But how to do it? To be more practical and to get to the point, the Spanish Pediatric Association (AEP), in collaboration with other pediatric and social societies, has developed the Practical Guide for Good Treatment of Children. Among the advice offered to parents to educate children on a day-to-day basis, it is suggested to carry out joint tasks at home because it allows children not only to enjoy the company of their parents while they carry out an obligation, but also to allows them to feel useful and accepted for what they can contribute at home, as well as more autonomous and competent
(Children's guide blog)
In this vein, it is important to note that traditionally many teachers also erred in the treatment they gave their students since in their time they considered it to be the correct one, but really, history, time, circumstances, the effects caused in some students, they have have shown that we have failed as a teacher and today we have other tools, other experiences, other knowledge that lead us to use it as alternatives of success for our students in all areas of their lives, that if with the help of parents who have the greatest responsibility in the treatment that they give to their children
From the psycho-affective evolution: A boy or girl is understood to be a person who has not yet reached a sufficient degree of maturity to have autonomy. Physical development: It is the name used to refer to any human creature that has not reached puberty
In this sense it is understood that children are people of great care and as someone said: be careful when treating them, they are full of dreams!
Certainly children are all special and unique and each one must receive the appropriate treatment to develop physically and mentally since indeed they are made of dreams and we must treat them with care since many times as parents who are the first to guide them we make many mistakes in his daily dealings and the words we speak to him which negatively affects his psychosocial development
The most tender of humanity are children, they need to form and develop in the best way and are essential imitators of one hundred percent of what they hear of what they live and their emotions are managed according to the treatment they receive from both their parents and families. and school that will undoubtedly absorb part of society, therefore the best way to teach is in this tender stage where your imagination and your mind are fresh as fruit trees in harvest time
Plato tells us that the best way to teach is from the earliest age. That is why girls and boys have to be educated for the purpose that they will have as adults. This stage is commonly called childhood.
Likewise, the teacher must be very careful in the treatment and the words they use to address them, that is, to their students specifically in the first initial stage of learning
We must all understand that every child has his own rhythm and that the first years of his life are susceptible, they need positive guidance, love, care, protection, they are like fresh cement that we can break if we step improperly.
In this order of ideas, as a suggestion, I explain several positive phrases for parents and teachers that every child should listen to for the good and development of their learning emotions and to prepare firmly for the adult stage.
When we say positive words like these to our children they are motivated and feel loved, for example phrases like:
YOU CAN
Anyone who hears these words is motivated and even more so in a child because when we say to a child in his infant stage "you can" the child feels excited and develops his self-esteem in a positive way which will allow him to feel valued, safe and accepted in addition to feel capable of doing good things about themselves and this will also lead them to believe in themselves
I TRUST YOU
I TRUST YOU
To say to a child "I trust you" is to give him confidence so that he can develop everything that is in his beautiful imagination is to give him the opportunity to solve situations according to his age in an appropriate way is to strengthen confidence and self-esteem is a good sign so that you explore your abilities and skills without fear of being wrong.
I NOTICE THAT EVERY DAY YOU ARE BETTER
One of the important things in childhood is to praise what they do even with their limitations because we must focus more on the strengths of our children than on their limitations and lend
pay attention to what your child does well and enjoy because in this way they will feel better about themselves
As parents we must know that praising children is a way to stimulate their behavior, however we must not do it excessively and we must avoid focusing praise on the results or actions that they do because in some cases they will feel that for some results they do not , they did better so we have to look for alternatives such as: today was not your best day but it happens to all of us tomorrow will be better
YOU WILL GET WHAT YOU PROPOSE
For some people these words are simple and many times not easy to say but when it comes to stimulating for the good I think it is one of the best phrases that we should say to our children and our students since these words really foster the capacity within them. to fight for what is proposed with freedom and success because not all children have the privilege of hearing words that encourage them to grow as people physically, socially, emotionally and intellectually
A child will never forget in his adulthood what he heard in his childhood and if he heard words like these he will surely be a successful individual and prepared for life.
There are several positive words that you and I can use today to make our children the best, not to compete with others but so that they can develop effectively and firmly achieve situations in life.
Remember that children are our imitators and in the future they will be what parents and teachers have learned from us the most influential agents in children's lives.
Also remember that words are not carried away by the wind, words are treasured in our hearts and they can make us happy or sad.
Look at your words as you use them in the orientation of your children because those words if they are negative can hurt them and make them insecure and unhappy adults
