Hivians ❤️
A good morning to y'all.
Sometimes we'd notice things are not really going great with us, your plans, goals, ambitions and expectations seem like they won't succeed, sometimes it's just that you're not pushing as hard as you should, sometimes it's because maybe some of those goals are unrealistic,or maybe we're not just moving with the right people.
Yeah,the right people.
In life, you're not supposed to move with everyone,they are some friends you shouldn't keep,some relationships you shouldn't be in, you can't have big dreams and your friends don't have any dreams at all, apparently, you'd need someone you can interact with, someone that can connect, someone that can understand you, appreciate your dreams and help you make them come out and be a reality. I know some people want to be alone,they don't need friends or anyone, the truth remains we all need someone, no man is an island, yet still move with the right people.
When you move with the right people things are a lot easier for you, honestly you'd move forward.
Wrong people tend to terminate your ambitions a lot , let's be real, there's a whole lot of jealous people out there,we watch movies and we see things,a friend is having a wedding in two weeks and her bridesmaid , probably her best friend is making advances at the groom, instead of helping her friend get set for the wedding, good people wouldn't hurt you intentionally,no body is perfect,in friendships there will be mistakes and fights no doubt, but a good friend will apologize and make things up.
How about friends that snitch your plans to someone else, that's totally annoying. Some plans are better kept to one self till they are realized, but a good friend will help you go through with it .
I'm using friendship because apart from family, that's the next closest relationship one could have with another person.
The right people pick you up when you fall, right people encourage you, right people defend you even in your absence, right people won't intentionally hurt you, right people are in the society , yes they exist, you can start by being a right person for someone around you today.
Just remember not everyone in the boat is riding with you,some are making holes, moving with the right people is essential.
Yea , sure having the right people with you is a whole gain☺️
Definitely
Took me a long time to learn this
But it's something I hold on to now.
Thank you for stopping by.