Well, this is new to me, I didn't think or know that expressing gratitude by associating certain qualities to people isn't that pleasant. However, I think you're right. These qualities can be fleeting as expressing appreciation by telling people how impactful they've been to us is more favourable. We're used to telling people what they're not just to make them feel good, this is absolutely right.
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yep! its a hard one to really get.. as i post more i hope to explain more.. as its a lot to take in and understand..
Truly. It's a different paradigm that gets to the root of something pervasive in our culture. The way it impacted me most greatly was actually in my own thoughts. I was most impacted by how violent my thoughts were toward myself and how I ordered myself around.