There are times when you get tired of yourself. You get tired of those faded landscapes in your dark room, of being your own jailer, your own executioner. Yes, the cruelest prisons weave their fences in the engineering of canned ideas, preconceptions or dungeons imposed by others and ancestral fears, or by someone. The time has come to try the wings, those that were always yours and that you never used. Then you take off in an flight to the colorful depths and illuminated heights of an unknown and fantastic universe that unfolds at the measure of your lightness, courage and audacity. This is what happens when you finally assume the leading role in your own life. The power, magic and charm are yours, bring them on now.
Hay veces que te cansas de ti mismo. Te cansas de esos paisajes descoloridos en tu cuarto oscuro, de ser tu propio carcelero, tu propio verdugo. Sí, las prisiones más crueles tejen sus vallas en la ingeniería de ideas enlatadas, preconceptos o calabozos impuestos por otros y miedos ancestrales, o por alguien. Ha llegado el momento de probar las alas, las que siempre fueron tuyas y que nunca usaste. Entonces despegas en un vuelo a las coloridas profundidades y alturas iluminadas de un universo desconocido y fantástico que se despliega a la medida de tu ligereza, coraje y audacia. Esto es lo que sucede cuando finalmente asumes el papel principal en tu propia vida. El poder, la magia y el encanto son tuyos, tráelos ahora.
There are moments where we are those prisoners of concepts imposed on us that we simply accept out of fear or comfort; There are also those moments where we are subjugated by the people and, for some reason, cannot rebel against the domination that we ourselves have allowed. People only have over you the power that you yourself grant them. To understand this simple concept is to see oneself strong in the mirror of life.
That decision to be emotionally independent, to manifest according to one's truth, is essential on the beautiful path to full freedom. To abandon full consciousness is to transfer to the other the essence of life. When we renounce to live the best of us we deny the world something strange, because no two beings are the same. You are unique and in this lies all your beauty.
When we accept that some people have power over others as normal behavior, we fall into the error of believing that some were born just to satisfy and serve others. Medieval concepts that history tried to eliminate as simply absurd. However, this desire for domination still manifests itself through atavism, ignorance or bad faith, causing many to curl up before their tacit existence as a kind of modern slavery, whether in the affective or social sphere.
Everyone wants to be recognized, accepted, loved and admired. But they forget that deep down nobody worships the weak. At best, it awakens feelings of mercy and compassion. At worst, it is contempt and irony. No one remembers the name of the film's extra; the story doesn't mention the cowards.
Freedom is not a concession, it is a conquest. It is not asked for, it is imposed. Only you can sign your own independence. If you speak and act according to your truth you will make the other one ask for a divorce, be fired, never be with you again; yell, kick or pout, better. A sign that this relationship was based on domination, lying, abuse and pain. Surely what you are leaving behind will not be necessary, because better times and better companies will come. Nothing good can be maintained in the slavery of the will. Let go what no longer serves you. Only then can the new arise and shine.
If you manage to establish a new concept of relationship based on respect and dignity, it will be perfect. If it ends, it is because you have rebelled against domination; it means that this relationship was spoiled and the end came at a good time.
Nobody owns anyone, no one belongs to anyone. Your life is totally personal, unalterable and non-transferable. Don't give it to anyone, but don't forget to share your joys and achievements with the world.
Ask yourself if the other has the right to establish himself as the owner of his will and truth. Don't be afraid to make your own decisions, they are powerful tools for navigating through life. It is through your choices that you trace your path in the world, write your history and exercise your spirituality. Soon your choices will be sacred. Honor it as a deity
Hay momentos en los que somos prisioneros de conceptos que se nos imponen y que simplemente aceptamos por miedo o por comodidad; también hay momentos en los que somos subyugados por la gente y, por alguna razón, no podemos rebelarnos contra la dominación que nosotros mismos hemos permitido. La gente sólo tiene sobre ti el poder que tú mismo les concedes. Entender este simple concepto es verse fuerte en el espejo de la vida.
Esa decisión de ser emocionalmente independiente, de manifestarse de acuerdo con la verdad de uno, es esencial en el hermoso camino hacia la plena libertad. Abandonar la plena conciencia es transferir al otro la esencia de la vida. Cuando renunciamos a vivir lo mejor de nosotros negamos al mundo algo extraño, porque no hay dos seres iguales. Tú eres único y en esto reside toda tu belleza.
Cuando aceptamos que algunas personas tienen el poder sobre otras como un comportamiento normal, caemos en ese error de creer que algunos nacieron apenas para satisfacer y servir a otros. Conceptos medievales que la historia trató de eliminar por ser simplemente absurdos. Pero, ese deseo de dominación todavía se manifiesta por atavismo, ignorancia o mala fé, haciendo que muchos se curven ante su existencia tácita como una especie de esclavitud moderna, sea en el ámbito afectivo o social.
Todos quieren ser reconocidos, aceptados, amados y admirados. Pero se olvidan de que en el fondo nadie venera a los débiles. En la mejor de las situaciones, despierta sentimientos de misericordia y compasión. En el peor de los casos, es desprecio e ironía. Nadie recuerda el nombre del extra de la película; la historia no menciona a los cobardes.
La libertad no es una concesión, es una conquista. No se pide, se impone. Sólo tú puedes firmar tu propia independencia. Si hablas y actúas de acuerdo con tu verdad harás que el otro pida el divorcio, sea despedido, no vuelva a estar contigo; grita, patea o pone mala cara, mejor. Una señal de que esta relación se basaba en la dominación, la mentira, el abuso y el dolor. Seguramente lo que estás dejando atrás no será necesario, porque vendrán tiempos mejores y mejores compañías. Nada bueno puede mantenerse en la esclavitud de la voluntad. Deja ir lo que ya no te sirve. Sólo entonces puede surgir y brillar lo nuevo.
Si logras establecer un nuevo concepto de relación basado en el respeto y la dignidad, será perfecto. Si termina, es porque te has rebelado contra la dominación; significa que esa relación se estropeó y el final llegó en un buen momento.
Nadie es dueño de nadie, nadie le pertenece a nadie. Tu vida es totalmente personal, inalterable e intransferible. No se la des a nadie, pero no olvides compartir tus alegrías y logros con el mundo.
Pregúntate si el otro tiene derecho a establecerse como dueño de su voluntad y verdad. No temas tomar tus propias decisiones, son herramientas poderosas para navegar por la vida. Es a través de tus elecciones que trazas tu camino en el mundo, escribes tu historia y ejercitas tu espiritualidad. Pronto tus elecciones serán sagradas. ¡Dale honor como una deidad!
Bendiciones | Blessing
Translation made with the free version of the translator DeepL
Sources of the images:
- @piterfrank
- @vitaminsea
The first image was edited with the program PhotoScape.
Traducción realizada con la versión gratuita del traductor DeepL
Fuentes de las imágenes:
- @piterfrank
- @vitaminsea
La primera imagen fue editada con el programa PhotoScape.
I loved your writing! So true. People need to realise that most of the times they can choose their own freedom. During the last months I had to make difficult decisions. People around me let me down and they were just so selfish and hypocrite. I made the choose to block them out of my live. My life is too precious for all the negative people around me. And it was a relief! One of the best decisions ever. Stand up for yourself!
Glad you liked my pictures and thanks for mentioning me :)
I love knowing that you were able to get out of the toxic people. I also went through that process and even though I almost ran out of friends, my mental health has improved. I think it was the best decision you ever made. Your photographs are very beautiful, I loved them and it is a pleasure for me to use them for this publication.
Thank you for commenting. Blessings. <3
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