Nothing hurt more than putting your trust in someone and at the end you got disappointed.
Honestly, is what I admired the most and expect from someone who is close and related to me, I could remember how my friend lie to me and took what belongs to me.
At first I was ease with his behavior but he keep me behaving that way, which brought a slight change in our friendship.
I used to imagine what is in there, if a person could not be real to his self.
Life should be make favourable to one another and not in a way to sabotage others interests and took what belongs to them.
Honesty brought the best out of people, being honest is being real and good to one another.
When someone is unpleasant to you, that relationship you develop with him/her would not last because they is no truth in it.
And Looking at it, you would not see a reason to continue.
As it was in my case with my friend whose usually lie to me about many things, each time I catch him in the acts he would try and lie again.
One thing I observed is that lies brings more lies to cover it up, and at such, It will even make your life more demanding.
Come to think of it, you may even forget the reasons why you develop the lies, as it would not gives you space but would keep you in one angle and be dealing with you.
I told my friend, you know you are my friend.
I wouldn't like it if you keep living with lies, be real and who likes you will still likes you.
I am your friend, so you do not need to lie to me, what for?
So that I would feel you?
Have you even thought about it,
Is it how you want to lived you life?
Common! boy! That is childish, let be grown up.
He was looking at me, he felt it and he was quietly for some times.
if I am to say.
I thinking he was truly ashamed of himself and since then he is the best version of a friend I Wish for myself.
He decided to stop lying.
He also do away with betraying, he began to lived a good and a fulfilled life, such that anyone could be proud of.
I began to see the good in him as someone who is nurtured.
When I met him some days ago, he hugged me and told me what I have done for him.
That if not for me, he would have still continue living in his dark attitudes.
He said. I am owing you, because you bring out the best in me.
True thing
Thanks so much, how are you doing
I am happy for the both of you if the change he made in himself was a change he actually wanted to make.
It is ok for us to be selfish. One can not fill anothers cup if theirs is empty.
It was the change he really wanted to make, at times we need to beat our fear and say what we knkw, is right in our hearts, which was what I did, I challenge him and talked to him in a way that I have never done before, he noticed that I am serious about it, now, i was using our relationship as a stake, now that he had seen all his wrong doing, he had noticed that, what i did said was our own benefit
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