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Imagino que en honor a San Valentín, las preguntas de esta semana son alusivas al amor; así que sin más preámbulo responderé ambas en base a mi experiencia personal.
1️⃣ ¿Cuándo fue la primera vez que le dijiste “te amo” a alguien de tu vida que no fuera de tu familia?
Cuéntanos, ¿cuál es tu “lenguaje del amor”?
Entonces si queridas hiver amigas, a la primera persona que le dije Te amo con toda la energía de mis mitocondrias y la convicción de haberme fijado en el hombre correcto fue el, el hoy padre mi hija; pues, acudió a mi buscando una asesoría de solicitud de patria potestad de su hija y ese lado responsable de su personalidad me conquistó , cuando en mi labor como Trabajador social de Polifalcon más bien , tenía que exhortar a muchos a cumplir con su deber de manutención con sus hijos; el quería hacerlo voluntario.
Y no me equivoqué en ese lado de su ser, como padre continúa siendo uno de los mejores que conozco; Amoroso, responsable y preocupado por darle lo mejor que puede a todos sus hijos por igual.
2️⃣ ¿Cuáles son algunos de los límites personales que consideras que es importante respetar en una relación? ¿Y cuáles son tus sentimientos sobre la independencia y la unión en una relación?
Mi respuesta acá será breve y precisa hiver amigas, si en una relación además de cariño sincero, se consolidan dos elementos fundamentales como la confianza y el respeto , ahí no hay mucho "límites" que establecer, la confianza fomenta el respeto y ambas se conjugan de forma idonea para dar armonía en la relación sin discusión de parámetros y reglas controversiales.
En cuanto a la independencia o no en una relación, pienso que si alguien desea vivir su vida en plena independencia, sin dar explicaciones a nadie de sus actos, pues, no se case, no se arrejunte, no contraiga pareja. El convivir en pareja implica compromiso y desde el momento que se asume, dejamos de ser uno para convertirnos en dos , es decir, Una pareja.
Por tanto, la relación es de dos y todo lo que atañe a ella debe ser considerado entre los dos, lo que hace que la "independencia" vaya como en sentido contrario a la esencia de vivir en pareja.
Es toda mi participación está semana con estas dos interesantes preguntas auspiciadas por @trucklife-family ,espero aporte algo significativo al concurso y desarrollemos una interesante interacción en los comentarios. Bendiciones mil para todas.
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Best regards dear community of beautiful ladies.
I imagine that in honor of Valentine's Day, this week's questions are alluding to love; So without further ado I will answer both based on my personal experience.
1️⃣ When was the first time you said “I love you” to someone in your life who wasn't your family?
Tell us, what is your “love language”?
So yes, dear hiver friends, to the first person I said I love you with all the energy of my mitochondria and the conviction of having settled on the right man was him, the father of my daughter today; Well, he came to me looking for advice on his daughter's request for parental authority and that responsible side of his personality conquered me, when in my work as a Polifalcon social worker, I had to exhort many to fulfill their duty of support with their children; He wanted to make it voluntary.
And I was not wrong on that side of his being, as a father he continues to be one of the best I know; Loving, responsible and concerned about giving the best he can to all his children equally.
2️⃣ What are some of the personal boundaries that you think are important to respect in a relationship? And what are your feelings about independence and togetherness in a relationship?
My answer here will be brief and precise hiver friends, if in a relationship in addition to sincere affection, two fundamental elements such as trust and respect are consolidated, there are not many "limits" to establish, trust fosters respect and both are combined in an ideal way to give harmony in the relationship without discussion of controversial parameters and rules.
Regarding independence or not in a relationship, I think that if someone wants to live their life in full independence, without giving explanations to anyone for their actions, well, don't get married, don't get involved, don't get a partner. Living together as a couple implies commitment and from the moment it is assumed, we stop being one and become two, that is, A couple.
Therefore, the relationship is between two and everything that concerns it must be considered between the two, which makes "independence" go as if in the opposite direction to the essence of living as a couple.
That's all my participation this week with these two interesting questions sponsored by @trucklife-family, I hope I contribute something significant to the contest and we develop an interesting interaction in the comments. A thousand blessings to all.
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Your story about falling in love with the father of your daughter and his dedication as a father is touching. Even though things didn’t work out between the two of you as partners, it’s heartening to hear that you both prioritize a harmonious and respectful relationship for the sake of your daughter. It’s a testament to both your characters.
Quality time as a love language speaks volumes about the importance you place on genuine connection and building strong emotional bonds. It's a beautiful way to nurture relationships and create lasting memories.
Reflecting on these experiences must have offered you valuable insights.Thank you for sharing that profound and personal story, @amymari . It's incredible how experiences shape us and bring out our strengths. It sounds like your journey through love has been full of learning and growth, and you’ve handled everything with such grace and resilience.
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Hola linda, me deleito en cada palabra de tu sublime comentario, compartir mis experiencias con ustedes es para mí un honor y el valor a mi contenido reflejado en comentarios significativos y profundos como este, son para mí, mi mejor recompensa. Bendiciones mil.
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STOPYour first love does sound like a wonderful father indeed, what a shame he could not be a wonderful partner with you. Love indeed is intense and blinding, I have had that experience as well.
thank you for sharing your experience and the lessons you have learned xx
Hola estimada amiga, gracias a ti por la oportunidad que nos ofreces de crear contenido maravilloso basado en nuestras experiencias personales. Fue un honor para mí compartir las mías con ustedes y si, el padre de mi hija es un padre excelente y eso para mí vale más que el compañero ideal que haya podido ser, cada cual tiene su media naranja en este vasto universo y creo que nosotros no éramos las mitades idóneas. Muchas gracias por tu visita y agradable comentario, bendiciones mil.