i am still not sure how often are people exchanging stuff here. maybe i just don't shop enough to think about it :D
i generally either suck at thinking about presents or i do great :D i mostly get random ideas of "this would be great for this person" but then i needs to wait for half of a year for the celebration and i don't want to wait half of the year, but then it is weird to show up with nothing, because you gifted something randomly half a year ago :D
photos before and after are less stress but need more effort :D
i am still a proponent of candid (often weird) photos that you will love 10 years later :D