I come today with another exciting story, I am personally interested in relationship stories and I follow this channel on Facebook where she writes about relationship happenings, I love to read these stories and the comments that follow also yesterday she mentioned the case of a certain woman who got married and following the normal African culture, the wife begins to wash her husband's cloth, cook for him amongst other things, but the world is changing now and things are different from what they used to be, thanks to civilization, it is no longer just the woman's duty to clean and cook, but some African men are still bent on that practice (I just see it as an avenue for laziness and wickedness), it takes only a wicked man to allow his wife go to work and then come back home to cook, clean and run all other necessary errands.
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There was an African woman who also believed in running the errands in her home, she was dedicated to sweeping, washing, and taking care of her little baby while the man relaxed on the care washing television or reading the papers, one day she washed her clothes and that of her baby's and she went to the market to purchase food items, when she got back home, she was surprised to find out that her evolved husband left her clothes and that of their child's outside under the rain until it got drenched by the rain, she was surprised and she was forced to ask him what the reason for his action was, the response he gave her immediately there her off balance as he said, he is a man and he cannot be caught picking up clothes outside, she thought she didn't hear properly and she asked him to repeat what he just said, it was after he repeated it that she realized she made a mistake getting married to a man like this, she told him to his face that, she will never wash his clothes for him and from that time, he had the choice to either take it to the laundry or wash his clothes by himself.
That was a wicked thing to do, analyzing her story, she said this is not the first time something similar is happening. The first time it happened, she had washed her clothes and that of her husband, and she left them outside to dry and went to work, when she got back in the evening, she figured out he had only picked his own cloth from the cloth spread outside and he left her's there, she overlooked it and she didn't pay attention to it until it happened again, and this time around, he even left her clothes and her baby's under the rain. After she posted the story, some of the audience advised her to walk out of the marriage immediately, while others feel it isn't so bad, what is your opinion on this, do you think the woman should remain in the marriage or not and what do you think should be done?
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I was told that before the marriage, or even the engagement is to carefully observe how his parents treated each other, Does his father tend to give his wife a hand with common tasks? Ask his mother questions. Chances are that his behavior will be similar to his father's.
Otherwise, negotiate after you accidentally forget his clothes out in the weather.
Very important points to consider and questions to be answered.
The husband's behavior is too bad, who does that. Walking out of the marriage isn't a good advice, now she knows the time of man she married, let her try having a heart to heart conversation with him and see if things will improve.
Thanks for your suggestion @luchyl