I wonder how children will feel in this generation when they are not accord the privilege of experiencing the motherly warmth of a mother's bosom. Raising children these days seems burdensome to many mothers. They just need babies but they are not ready to undergo the pains (which is a blend of love and responsibility) in nursing the babies and parenting their children. I read a recent post from @tarazkp about the Australian government trying to ban social media for children. Now, that wouldn't have been needful had we parents been doing our jobs over our children.
In the olden days, our parents used to carry their babies in their hands and put them right in their bosoms. Mothers used to sleep with their children and make them feel the warmth of their embrace. In those days, when a woman gives birth, she will stay off much active and strenuous engagements and take care of her baby for some months. The difference is the case these days.
I saw a sight yesterday that got everyone present at the scene talking. I went to the bank and for the meantime, the network wasn't responding. We had to sit at the gallery till the network was restored.
While we were all seated there, a woman came in carrying her few weeks old baby in a baby carrier that looked like a basket. Now, I know that that is what is invoked in this present age nursing technique. Many of us used these kinds of stuffs to ease our job but the way she was carrying the baby as if she was carrying some items she got from a shopping mall made people talk. It was really offensive and unhealthy. I didn't know I would make up this post. I would have taken a picture of the sight.
My appeal is that we who are the new age mothers should nurse and raise our children with the feeling of love and passion. We should remember how we carry them in our womb for nine months and treat them with care. Though we have been given many facilities by technology which helps in reducing our stress, we should not ride upon that and treat our babies like toys. Even animals take care of their offspring with a high sense of tenderness. Let us nurse and care for our children with love.
The present day is marked by the rise of self centeredness. The women are taught to be independent and in this pursuit they no longer have the desire to take care of their children. They love their career more.
Having children is blessing and rearing them is a great responsibility. Children need our attention and care. It is the attention and care in the initial years of life that creates a stronger emotional bond.
Thanks for sharing the thoughts with us, !LADY
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But should we lost our compassionate feeling for our children like mothers? I don't think that is right. Thank you for your contribution, lady
We should bot. However, we are swayed away by the present day trends and consider them to be the right path
Children are a gift and in today's world, I believe that people in general don't really understand that. They want to be adults and have babies, but then they find out they need more care than they imagined, and they aren't prepared to or want to give it. Sacrifice is the what moms do. In a world that is so self centered, some parents are unaware of the word sacrifice, let alone the definition of what it really means.
Thank you for sharing and have a lovely day!
Thank you, Lady for you wonderful contribution
You are most welcome!
It is so important to breastfeed the baby, that connection of mother and child is precious, thank you for sharing.!LADY
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Thank you for your time in reading
You're welcome, have a nice day!
Unfortunately, un-involved parents have always been. Especially here in the west, anyway. I'm the 1950s I think it was? ...there was a book published that advised parents to ignore babies crying, so that they learned not to cry. And parents did that. Because they thought it would make their child spoiled to ANSWER THEIR CRIES.
Like y'all that's a baby, the only way they can tell you they need something is to cry! But it's still pretty prevalent today, people think they are teaching the baby not to cry.
What a wrong mentality. If we ignore the children crying, how will we be able to soothe their feelings?
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