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My joining the Ladies of Hive community will be through the 123 contest where they ask: Why are so many people lonely? Why is it so hard for people to make real connections when almost everyone wants to make real connections?
There are many reasons why people feel lonely. Some of the factors include lack of social skills, lack of self-confidence, fear of rejection, feelings of not belonging, emotional loneliness, geographic isolation, stress and anxiety. These factors can make it difficult for people to make real connections, as they affect how they relate to others.
Some of the tips for making real connections include being open and honest when sharing with others, finding activities that are fun for both of you, paying attention to how you talk to others, looking for opportunities to meet new people, and setting healthy boundaries. .
Seeking professional help can be helpful when you are feeling alone. There are several ways to seek help, such as joining a support group or therapy, or seeking professional help to address underlying issues that may be contributing to loneliness. This can help alleviate loneliness by providing a sense of connection and understanding. Additionally, there are various self-help tools available online, such as books or websites, that can be helpful in learning how to deal with feelings of loneliness.
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Mi unión a la comunidad Ladies of Hive será a través del concurso 123 donde preguntan: ¿Por qué hay tanta gente que se siente sola? ¿Por qué es tan difícil para las personas hacer conexiones reales cuando casi todo el mundo quiere hacer conexiones reales?
Hay muchas razones por las que la gente se siente sola. Algunos de los factores incluyen la falta de habilidades sociales, la falta de confianza en uno mismo, el miedo a la rechazación, el sentimiento de no pertenencia, la soledad emocional, el aislamiento geográfico, el estrés y la ansiedad. Estos factores pueden hacer que sea difícil para las personas hacer conexiones reales, ya que afectan la forma en que se relacionan con los demás.
Algunos de los consejos para hacer conexiones reales incluyen ser abierto y honesto al compartir con los demás, buscar actividades que sean divertidas para ambos, prestar atención a la forma en que habla con los demás, buscar oportunidades para conocer a nuevas personas y establecer límites saludables.
Buscar ayuda profesional puede ser útil cuando se siente solo. Existen varias maneras de buscar ayuda, como unirse a un grupo de apoyo o terapia, o buscar ayuda profesional para tratar los problemas subyacentes que pueden estar contribuyendo a la soledad. Esto puede ayudar a aliviar la soledad al proporcionar una sensación de conexión y comprensión. Además, hay varias herramientas de autoayuda disponibles en línea, como libros o sitios web, que pueden ser útiles para aprender a lidiar con los sentimientos de soledad.
Fear of rejection! That got me thinking more actually... I think I've had an encounter with someone who has that fear and so she is always on her own.
Loneliness isn't a good feeling at all, seeking help should definitely be an option.
Thanks for participating, it's very much appreciated... All the best !LADY 🙂
You can help that person you have encountered with that fear, surely with your help they will be able to improve.
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I agree with what you said that some people tend to withdraw from others because of low self-confidence etcetera. These days where internet is more accessible, it has made some people more withdrawn. And like you said, seeking professional help can be a solution.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts.
!LADY
Of course, asking a professional for help is always a good option.
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I totally agree with your points, some people tends to be all alone cause of low self esteem. They feel someone else is more better than them and that they aren't up to standard.
Loneliness is a dangerous thing which can lead one to depression. Seeking help should be a definite way out for someone in such situation. Thanks for sharing this lady
Loneliness is one of the main causes of depression, it can be very dangerous
Yes, very dangerous
You have to know the background of why that person feels lonely, because he prefers to stay that way, and the best thing he can do is seek professional guidance, without a doubt. I wish you luck in the contest. Blessings 🙏🏽🤗💖🌺
It is very important to know the background, blessings 💖
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Thank you, I will do a decent job for the community
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You've listed some vital points, being lonely sometimes needs professional help and therapy to go through the challenges you might be facing.
Thanks for sharing.