Expectations often weigh down the concept of purpose. We often perceive it as a singular, lofty objective that validates our existence. In Christianity, this purpose is commonly defined as worshiping and obeying God, sharing the gospel, and living a loving life. People sometimes interpret these profound and wonderful callings rigidly, as if they dominate all other aspects of life. This restrictive view may mistakenly make other activities, such as creative expression, personal growth, or simple pleasures, appear less significant or even secondary. I've often wondered if this viewpoint overlooks the depth and breadth of what it means to live a meaningful life.
This reflection grew more poignant during a talk with a close friend. She faced a question that plagues many who face life-altering events after a lengthy struggle with illness: "What now?" Her sense of purpose seemed distant, as if simply surviving was insufficient. Her struggle underscored the need for a broader, more compassionate understanding of purpose that transcends positions, accomplishments, or major objectives.
The Weight of Conventional Purpose
The societal and cultural norms surrounding purpose might make us feel inadequate. We learn to strive, succeed, and leave a legacy that validates our worth from an early age. In the Christian context, this can sometimes result in a sole emphasis on ministry or evangelism, as if all other aspects of life are secondary. While these endeavors are important, they do not encompass the entire range of human experience.
This rigidity can create a sense of failure in those who do not fit perfectly into these molds. Disease, disappointments, or everyday routines may lead individuals to believe they have missed their calling. But what if purpose isn't just about meeting life's "key performance indicators," as some may put it? What if it's about something considerably simpler, but profoundly meaningful?
Showing Up and Being Present.
One of the most liberating ideas I've come across is that purpose can be as simple as showing up. Sometimes just being present is enough. It's easy to overlook the power of presence and endurance when caring for a loved one. However, in these moments of simply "being," we often discover the core of purpose.
Authenticity is what the world seeks, not grand gestures. Allowing ourselves to fully engage in life can lead us to a deeper sense of meaning. Being present becomes a gift when we create art, nurture relationships, or enjoy life's simple pleasures. Showing up, however flawed and uncertain we may feel, is a significant act of courage and purpose.
A Life Fueled by Curiosity and Creativity
If purpose is rooted in showing up, then curiosity and creativity serve as its wings. Too often, we associate our sense of worth with our careers or accomplishments. We expect our professions to bring fulfillment and purpose, but we forget that work is only one aspect of who we are. Most people will find their sense of purpose in activities that spark their curiosity and creativity, rather than in their job title or salary.
Imagine a life in which curiosity encourages you to feel free to attempt new things, create without judgment, and learn and explore simply for the sake of it. Acts of creativity, such as composing a poem, painting a landscape, or learning a new language, are deeply human and purposeful. They remind us that our purpose is not to prove our worth to the world, but to express our unique presence within it.
The Centrality of Relationships and Love
Purpose is fundamentally relational. It is revealed not in what we do, but in how we love. This fact is humbling and liberating. It means that our purpose is defined not by our accomplishments but by the relationships we develop with others.
When my friend questioned why she had survived illness only to feel unmoored, I found myself musing on the meaning inherent in her relationships. Her presence and love are enough. The impact we have on others around us determines our worth, not what we produce. In this sense, love becomes the ultimate goal. It is the thread that brings purpose into our lives, connecting us in ways that transcend time and circumstance.
Embracing the Beauty of the Ordinary
There is a tendency to look for meaning in extraordinary circumstances. But what if the quiet, unassuming moments of everyday life hold purpose? Even the most insignificant things can have a huge impact: the company of a friend over tea, the comfort of clean bedding, the joy of a loved one's laughter. They remind us that purpose is more than just doing; it is also about being.
By embracing the beauty of the ordinary, we relieve ourselves of the pressure to always achieve. We learn to enjoy life as it unfolds, seeking joy and purpose in the present rather than racing after an elusive future.
A Fluid and Loving Journey
I've come to believe that purpose is a fluid journey rather than a challenging goal. It evolves alongside us, influenced by our experiences, relationships, and preferences. It can be discovered by simply being present, creating, loving, and giving oneself over to the whole of life, including both its beauty and its suffering.
Our calling as Christians is to love, serve, and bear witness to the grace that sustains us. However, this calling is not a confined path; rather, it is a broad and comprehensive journey that includes all aspects of our humanity. It encourages us to be curious, create, connect, and live in gratitude. I continue to strive to fulfill my purpose as God intended, but I will not disregard the value of other elements of life, such as pursuing art or writing, because I think God has also called me to share His message through these creative outlets.
So, to everyone struggling with the question of purpose, I offer this: Your purpose is not a task to finish or a goal to reach. It is the life you lead, the love you offer, and the happiness you discover along the way. Show up. Create. Love. And understand that by doing so, you are living a life with tremendous purpose.
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Right? I'm tired of people constantly promoting big goals, whether in the church or the secular world, as if other aspects of life are unimportant. I'm tired of striving to achieve my "KPIs" in life. I've had enough.
The Apostle Paul did write "...finish the race." and not "...win the race."
Yes, yes Amen to that 👏
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