Change, I've noticed, is rarely loud or sudden. Change often takes the form of small actions, like choosing to wake up a bit earlier, opting for a walk instead of sitting with racing thoughts, or revealing a truth you've been concealing. These seemingly little changes have a cumulative effect that alters our lives and our perspective on the world, even though they don't appear significant when taken alone.
The question is: Are you ready for change? This is a question that I constantly grapple with. Readiness, I believe, is less about being well prepared and more about being willing to begin, even if the road ahead appears uncertain. I prefer to approach transformation slowly, taking one step at a time and pausing to reflect along the way. However, as the year draws to a close, I've identified two minor yet significant changes I need to make. These changes must affect my life and those I care about.
Prioritizing My Relationship with God
The past three years have tested my faith in unexpected ways, particularly the fragility of friendships among fellow believers. I lost some of my closest friends when they decided to leave the congregation. While I remain in touch with a few of them, many have distanced themselves completely. Their absence caused me to feel hollow and grieve for months.
I've struggled with the question of whether I could have done more to mend those relationships. But the acute, familiar agony of rejection prevented me from attempting. I persuaded myself it was best to follow their wishes, as forcing a connection would only worsen the scars. But a small, persistent voice inside questions, "Have I loved enough?"
I've struggled to reconcile with the shame and guilt that persistently haunt me. But I know I can't take all the blame. People make their own decisions, just as I do mine. However, I've discovered that human relationships cannot provide me with the security and peace that I want. It must be from God alone. I need to restore that foundation, to anchor myself in Him, and to find the strength to live with that conviction every day. Only then can I expect to teach my children what it means to have faith that lasts.
Sharing My Faith with My Children
This takes me to the second change I should make. My children's understanding of God is hazy, based on borrowed faith and fragments of what they've seen or heard but haven't yet experienced for themselves. Preaching alone will not be sufficient. They need to see faith in my decisions and behaviors.
What am I teaching my children if I don't pray, read the Bible, and live according to God's Word? Hypocrisy? I can't ask them to follow a path that I'm not entirely committed to. The truth is stark: I must first strengthen my relationship with God before I can lead them to a faith of their own. This will require the deliberate action and practice of what I preach rather than simply expressing it.
I am overwhelmed by the weight of this obligation. However, it serves as a reminder that change happens gradually. It starts with small, intentional steps. A morning prayer. A family devotion shared during breakfast. A peaceful moment of gratitude before bed. These gestures, however small, have the potential to plant seeds of faith that will one day bloom into something lasting.
The Power of Small Changes
People often dismiss small changes as trivial, believing only large gestures and sweeping changes can have a real impact. However, life rarely unfolds in grand gestures. It is the result of many small decisions, things we do or don't do every day. These are the things that influence who we are and how we live.
Change does not have to be huge to have an impact. Sometimes it's as simple as asking, "What can I do today to get closer to the life I want?" The next step is to put it into action, even if it's just a single step. Although these actions may not seem significant at the time, they add up and quietly transform our lives.
I've grown to consider these changes as long-term commitments, rather than brief resolutions or checklist items. They are subtle and long-lasting, like the tides that slowly come and go. They remind me that progress is a process that involves patience, perseverance, and grace.
An Invitation to Embrace Change
As the New Year approaches, I find myself pondering both the changes I've resisted and the ones I've accepted. I've discovered that being ready for change does not imply certainty or confidence. It is about the willingness to attempt, fail, learn, and keep going forward.
So, if you're wondering whether you're ready for change, I encourage you to start small. Identify one item that is vital to you, whether it be a relationship, a habit, or a value, and take a single step toward nurturing it. It does not have to be perfect or outstanding. What matters is that you start.
For me, this year will be about growing my faith, sharing it with my children, and finding peace in the humble, daily acts that bring me closer to the life I desire. I am not striving for perfection, nor am I seeking immediate results. I'm simply committing to the process, trusting that these tiny changes will have an impact in ways I can't yet see.
Are you prepared for change? If the solution feels ambiguous, remember that you are not alone. Change rarely occurs entirely at once. It all starts with one step, taken with intention and care. And one move, no matter how small, has the capacity to change everything.
Note: This post is my entry for the Ladies of Hive #218 weekly contest. There were two questions to choose from, and I picked the second question: "If you think that this year it's time to embrace those small changes that can make a big difference in your life, are you ready for a change? Is there something you know you should change?"
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Certainly change begins little by little, with those small gestures, as you say, they have the potential to plant seeds of faith that will one day blossom and become something lasting, and yes, the important thing is the willingness to try, fail, learn and move forward. Thank you for sharing your beautiful reflection,
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Yes, small consistent steps and never beating ourselves for any failure. Thank you for the opportunity to participate. I love this week's prompts ❤️
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That sounds like a beautiful journey, @coloringiship! Committing to the process and finding peace in everyday acts is truly inspiring. It's wonderful that you're focusing on growth and sharing your faith with your children. Those tiny changes often have the most profound impact, even if we can't see them right away. Wishing you all the best as you embark on this meaningful path in the coming year.
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Thank you for your kind words. It's a lifetime process, I guess, and it certainly will not show immediate results, but I'll not beat myself for any failure along the way ❤️
That's a big one, my walk, to recapture that depth of Spirituality I once had.
I'd be wise to to envision a better version of ourselves and make those small steps towards that than forced to make hasty and dramatic or urgent changes. Worldly, I was too much like my work-a-holic Mom. Too driven to slow down and missed the real blessings that pasted by. My children are adults now, but I am making up for lost time.
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I have no big resolution this year, just these...strenghtening my foundation in God and heal from past hurt and grow from there 🙏
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