There’s something I realised and that is with every relationship (romantic or not) it’s never 50/50. One gives and the other takes. It may not happen in a flourish and could be determined by the situation but someone is always 80 and the other 20. For example, when I’m with my partner, I tend to be quiet and just listen. I love listening to him, and he loves that I listen. It set the dynamic in our relationship and he also knows when I just want to be listened to. He gives me that too. But overall, I’m the listener.
With my mom, she’s the listener. She likes to listen and give takeaways but most of the time, she’s just still and waiting for you to say something
So true, sometimes it's more enjoyable to just listen especially when you're talking with someone that really had a lot to talk about, it's a nice feeling when you're just going to give questions in order for the conversation to prolong but at some point we also had this person that we somehow wants to listen to us just like our mom. Thank you for visiting and reading my blog @deraaa, I've enjoyed reading your thoughts about it🥰