Being a mother was for me one of the most challenging stages.I was full of expectations and fears because I knew nothing.Everything is learned along the way.I no longer had my mother and grandmother to instruct and support me and my sister lived abroad, but luckily there was my mother-in-law, some friends helping me, giving me recommendations at that time the most beautiful blessing that any woman can receive from God.I know I am not the best mother, but I do the best I can.I try to instruct them according to their stage, that they fall and learn to get up and learn to be self-sufficient since they are young, that they learn to be self-sufficient since they are little, that they learn to be self-sufficient.I know I am not the best mother, but I do the best I can, I try to instruct them according to their stage, that they fall down and learn to get up and learn to be self-sufficient from a young age, to have small responsibilities, to teach them the truth that life is difficult, but still worth living.
Ser madre fue para mí una de las etapas más desafiantes.Estaba llena de expectativas y miedos porque no sabía nada.Todo se aprende en el camino.Ya no tenía a mi madre y a mi abuela para instruirme y apoyarme y mi hermana vivía en el extranjero, pero por suerte estaba mi suegra, algunas amigas ayudándome, dándome recomendaciones en ese momento la bendición más hermosa que cualquier mujer puede recibir de Dios.Se que no soy la mejor madre, pero hago lo mejor que puedo.Trato de instruirlos de acuerdo a su etapa, que se caigan y aprendan a levantarse y aprendan a ser autosuficientes desde pequeños, que tengan pequeñas responsabilidades, enseñarles la verdad de que la vida es difícil, pero aun así vale la pena vivirla.
I think the most difficult moment was when I lost my parents, it is a pain that I did not wish to anyone, but somehow also their memories, their love, their example was the best teaching that life left me.I learned that I was stronger than I thought, that I could take care of my siblings and teach them the best I could.together with my grandmother I learned that our time in this world is limited, but we lose it in the routine, in distractions, in technology, in things we do not love, we do not take advantage of as we should Time does not forgive, it does not stop or recover, and we must be aware that every moment is a great gift, so we must live life as if we were going to die at the end of the day, because at the moment we trust the most and make more plans for the future, at that moment death can surprise us, that is why every day we must forgive, love and laugh.
Creo que el momento más difícil fue cuando perdí a mis padres, es un dolor que no le deseo a nadie, pero de alguna manera también sus recuerdos, su amor, su ejemplo fue la mejor enseñanza que me dejó la vida.aprendí que era más fuerte de lo que pensaba, que podía cuidar de mis hermanos y enseñarles lo mejor que podía.junto a mi abuela aprendí que nuestro tiempo en este mundo es limitado, pero lo perdemos en la rutina, en las distracciones, en la tecnología, en cosas que no amamos, que no aprovechamos como deberíamos El tiempo no perdona, no se detiene ni se recupera, y debemos ser conscientes de que cada momento es un gran regalo, por eso debemos vivir la vida como si fuéramos a morir al final del día, porque en el momento que más confiamos y más planes hacemos para el futuro, en ese momento la muerte nos puede sorprender, por eso cada día debemos perdonar, amar y reír.
I have had disappointments in love, I have lost a job, I have lost loved ones, I have been swindled by people who claimed to be my friends and I have learnedThere are things in life that sadly we cannot control, we can cry and get depressed, but everything is necessary and perhaps at the time we do not understand it, but every difficulty, every pain transforms us, we must focus more attention on the solutions and not so much on the problems.
He tenido decepciones amorosas, he perdido un trabajo, he perdido seres queridos, he sido estafada por personas que decían ser mis amigos y he aprendidoHay cosas en la vida que tristemente no podemos controlar, podemos llorar y deprimirnos, pero todo es necesario y quizás en el momento no lo entendemos.Pero cada dificultad, cada dolor nos transforma, debemos centrar más la atención en las soluciones y no tanto en los problemas.
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Losing parents is a life altering event we can't avoid. My father passed away decades ago at a young age and as the eldest, my Mom depended a lot on me until financial issues and legal matters were settled. My mother passed away a few months ago and I am glad to have time to heal any wounds between us.
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I am happy for you. Yes sometimes relationships with our parents can be complicated, but without them we wouldn't be here. Thank you so much for visiting
You have gone though a lot and despite hardship, you didn't loose hope. In my opinion, losing parents is the most difficult situation in life and you feel like you suddenly become responsible and mature. You really managed your life strongly despite difficult situations. Thanks for sharing...
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