When we are in a relationship, we begin to share moments that were previously just ours; we let our partner know that part of what perhaps many did not see, as well as we tell them about our hobbies. There are even those who tell their day to the other to create an environment of trust and communication. But within this we usually talk about the limits in this that must exist in order to coexist in a healthy way and it is where we ask ourselves: Do we really set them or do we set the appropriate ones?
Although it is hard to admit, we do not always set the real limits; we usually set some common ones, such as the space for each one's friends, or some rules in certain environments, but do we really get to be honest about how we want to be treated or the details to take into account? The thing is that many times we wait until a good time passes or some eventuality occurs that brings out these factors so that they take the necessary place and once and for all the limits that should have been there from day one are established.
Cuando estamos en una relación, comenzamos a compartir momentos que antes eran solo de nosotros; damos a conocer a nuestra pareja esa parte de lo que tal vez muchos no veían, así como le contamos sobre nuestros pasatiempos. Incluso hay quienes le cuentan su día al otro para que se cree un ambiente de confianza y comunicación. Pero dentro de esto solemos hablar de los límites en esta que deben existir para poder coexistir de manera saludable y es donde nos preguntamos: ¿Realmente los ponemos o ponemos los adecuados?
Aunque cueste admitir, no siempre ponemos los límites reales; solemos colocar algunos comunes, como el de los espacios para amigos de cada uno, o algunas reglas en ciertos entornos, pero ¿realmente nos llegamos a sincerar de cómo queremos ser tratados o de los detalles a tomar en cuenta? La cosa es que muchas veces nos esperamos hasta que pase un buen tiempo o ocurra cualquier eventualidad que haga salir estos factores para que así tomen el lugar necesario y de una vez por todas se establezcan los límites que debieron estar desde el día uno.
And even if we have great confidence in our partner, we will always be reluctant to share many details that could be taken into account for necessary limits. It will always take time and, of course, it will still depend on how open we want to be with the other person. That is why, taking into account the question of what are some of the personal limits that you consider important to respect in a relationship? What does @trucklife-family have for us this week? In my case, the answer is going to be that, far beyond setting the limits that every relationship sets, we must take that step of being honest with what can really affect us or with what we really feel occupies the true limit, since each mind is a world, as they say, and each relationship will become stronger or not according to the personalities and needs of each one.
Since what could be a limit for some, for others it can be something that helps them unite or enjoy more, since in my case the poor limit goes hand in hand with a previous communication about it and the sincerity of the meaning for the person who sets it, but above all talking about it, since in this way an understanding and even stronger union could be reached, and this is because there is a fine line between a real limit or a limit that is taken to take advantage. Since many use their taste for personal independence to avoid at all costs that the couple becomes in a way that they do not want in their life, which is something that must be talked about to avoid harming those who seek to share and respect spaces.
Y es que, aunque le tengamos la gran confianza a nuestra pareja, siempre nos vamos a cohibir de contar muchos detalles que pudieran tomarse en cuenta para límites necesarios. Siempre va a pasar un tiempo y, claro, aun así va a depender de qué tan abiertos querramos ser con la otra persona. Por eso es que, tomando en cuenta la pregunta de ¿cuáles son algunos de los límites personales que consideras que es importante respetar en una relación? ¿Qué nos hace @trucklife-family para esta semana? En mi caso, la respuesta va a ser que, mucho más allá de colocar los límites que coloca toda relación, debemos dar ese paso en sincerarnos con lo que realmente nos pueda afectar o con lo que realmente sintamos que ocupe el verdadero límite, ya que cada mente es un mundo, como dicen, y cada relación se hará o no más fuerte de acuerdo a las personalidades y necesidades de cada uno.
Ya que lo que pudiera ser un límite para algunos, para otros puede ser algo que los ayude a unirse o disfrutar más, ya que en mi caso el pobre límite va de la mano con una comunicación previa sobre esto y el sincerar del significado para quien lo pone, pero sobre todo el hablarlo, ya que así podría llegarse a un entendimiento y unión incluso más fuerte, y esto es porque hay una delgada línea entre un límite real o un límite que es tomado para sacar provecho. Ya que muchos usan su gusto por la independencia personal para evitar a toda costa que la pareja llegue a estar de manera que no quieren en su vida, lo cual es algo que se debe de hablar para evitar dañar a quien busca compartir y respetar espacios.
And what are your feelings about independence and union in a relationship?
This is another question that we are asked and it is that as long as communication is correct we can enjoy independence and union in an equitable way. Union is not just being together, but sharing with a person who you are, from the white to the dark of your nuances, working together on problems and enjoying the virtues, loving each other as much as we are, as who we show and seeing beyond this to establish things as they are and the bases of what a healthy relationship should be.
¿Y cuáles son tus sentimientos sobre la independencia y la unión en una relación?
Esta es otra pregunta que nos plantean y es que siempre que la comunicación sea correcta podremos disfrutar de una independencia y una unión de manera equitativa . La unión no es solo estar juntos, sino compartir con una persona quién eres, desde lo blanco hasta lo oscuro de tus matices, trabajar juntos en los problemas y disfrutar las virtudes, amarnos tanto como somos, como quienes damos a mostrar y ver más allá de esto para establecer las cosas como son y las bases de lo que debería ser una relación sana.
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!LADYYou're absolutely right about the importance of setting boundaries and being honest about our needs in a relationship, @ineyashami . Setting and respecting personal limits is crucial for creating a healthy, respectful, and nurturing environment. It's not always easy, but open communication and trust can help navigate these conversations. Some key personal limits that might be important to respect in a relationship include personal space and alone time, privacy, communication boundaries, social boundaries, emotional boundaries, and physical boundaries. Respecting each other's privacy, understanding and respecting each other's social needs, and maintaining individual identities within the relationship are all essential aspects. Taking the time to discuss and set these boundaries can strengthen the relationship and create a more supportive and understanding environment. It's a continuous process of learning, adjusting, and growing together.
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Setting limits is difficult, but once you start you can't stop. Valid for relationships even with your children, co-workers, friends and family. These last ones are the ones that have cost me the most and still.
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Yes honesty and communication are very important n a relationship. Thanks for sharing your thoughts on this weeks question @ineyashami xx