Ladies of Hive Community Contest #179 / Memories of my mother. / Memorias de mi madre.

Hello friends of this beautiful community of Ladies of Hive. This week there is a very beautiful topic based on the mother-daughter relationship brought to us by friend @merit.ahama in which I couldn't resist the temptation to participate.

1️⃣ Share any memorable mother-daughter relationship with us, whether good or bad, yours or another's own you witnessed.

~ 𝐀𝐍𝐃 / 𝐎𝐑 ~

2️⃣ Tell us about one thing you learned from your mother or sister or a female neighbour that she didn't teach you directly.

These are the two questions that our friend asks us, which seem to me to be very linked to each other and I love talking about my mother and everything I learned from her. After all, it is our main pattern during our growth.

I am the fourth of 7 children and in this photograph I am with my mother and my younger sister.

I always got along well with my mother, as a child I felt the affection she felt for me and the care she gave me. She was not one to show many gestures of affection, perhaps because she was always busy, but the moments of a meeting between us were enjoyable and she made jokes. That was enough for me, she never criticized him for anything, everything she did was done thinking about us.

When I asked him about something he never told me yes or no, he said: Are you sure? Is what you want? and he supported me 100 percent. Like when I got married, he supported me and gave me his blessing.

When I started having children, she was my private nurse, I consulted everything with her. I had my first child who was 7 months old (premature) and she always called her on the phone to ask if she gave my son a bottle or if she let him sleep. She didn't even go to the hospital.

When I started to have problems in my marriage, he never told me to divorce, he told me to weigh the pros and cons and from there you make the decision and whatever it is, I will support you. She never got involved in my relationship, she listened to me and didn't advise me on negative things.

She taught me to cook, she taught me to be patient, she taught me to be faithful to my partner but not to put up with mistreatment, she taught me to have respect for others and to give myself respect, she taught me to believe in God, she taught me to To be the woman I am today and how to lead a family, my children and my grandchildren are influenced by her.

She was a woman with many mistakes and many weaknesses, but she always put her family before any difficulty. She was always there for each one of us who needed her. And although she is a cliché, my mother was the best in the world and if she were born again she would be born again from her womb.

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Traduccion al Español:

Hola amigas de esta hermosa comunidad de Ladies of Hive. Esta semana hay un tema muy hermoso basado en la relacion madre e hija que nos trae la amiga @merit.ahama en la cual no aguante la tentacion de participar.

1️⃣ Comparte con nosotros cualquier relación memorable entre madre e hija, ya sea buena o mala, tuya o de otra persona que hayas presenciado.

~ 𝐀𝐍𝐃 / 𝐎𝐑 ~

2️⃣ Cuéntanos algo que hayas aprendido de tu madre, tu hermana o una vecina que ella no te haya enseñado directamente.

Estas son las dos preguntas que nos hace nuestra amiga, las cuales me parece que estan muy ligadas la una a la otra y me encanta hablar sobre mi madre y de todo lo que aprendi de ella. Al fin y al cabo es nuestro patron principal durante nuestro crecimiento.

Soy la cuarta de 7 hijos y en esta fotografia estoy junto a mi mama y mi hermana menor.

Siempre me lleve bien con mi madre, de pequeña senti el cariño que ella sentia por mi y su cuidado que ella me brindaba. Ella no era de mostrar muchos gestos de cariño, quizas porque siempre estaba ocupada, pero los momentos de alguna reunion entre nosotros era de disfrute y nos hacia bromas. Eso para mi era suficiente, nunca le critique nada, todo lo que ella hizo lo hizo pensando en nosotros.

Cuando le consultaba por algo nunca me decia si o no, me decia: Estas segura? Es lo que quieres? y me apoyaba al 100 por ciento. Como cuando me case, me apoyo y me dio su bendicion.

Cuando comence a tener hijos fue mi enfermera paricular, todo se lo consultaba a ella. Tuve a mi primer hijo de 7 meses (prematuro) y siempre la llamaba por telefono para preuntarle si le daba el biberon a mi hijo o si lo dejaba dormir. Hasta ne llebaba al hospital.

Cuando comence a tener problemas en el matrimonio nunca me dijo divorciate, me dijo coloca en una balanza los pros y los contras y de alli tomas la decision y cualquiera que sea yo te apoyo. Nunca se metio en mi relacion, me escuchaba y no me aconsejaba cosas negativas.

Ella me enseño a cocinar, me enseño a tener paciencia, me enseño a ser fiel con mi pareja pero a no aguantar malos tratos, me enseño a tener respeto por los demas y a darme a respetar, me enseño a creer en Dios, me enseño a ser la mujer que soy hoy y a como llevar una familia, mis hijos y mis nietos tienen la influencia de ella.

Fue una mujer con muchos errores y muchas debilidades, pero siempre antepuso a su familia ante cualquier dificultad. Siempre estuvo para cada uno de nosotros que la necesitara. Y aunque sea un cliche, mi madre fue la mejor del mundo y si volviera a nacer naceria otra vez de su vientre.