The first love is never forgotten and leaves many pleasant memories, even if they are irresponsible. Your second love hurt much more, I imagine, because it was something with a lot of maturity, but it still wasn't your type. Things arrive when they should arrive. It's true, I've heard of many candle fires, scented or not, and those scented stones are a good alternative.
El primer amor nunca se olvida y deja muchos gratos recuerdos, aunque sean irresponsables. Tu segundo amor dolio mucho mas imagino que por ser algo con mucha madurez, pero igual no era tu tipo. Las cosas llegan cuando deben llegar. Es cierto, he sabido sobre muchos incendios por las velas, aromaticas o no, y esas piedras con olor son una buena alternativa.