Imposter Syndrome and Gratitude πŸ’–

in Ladies of Hive β€’ 2 years ago (edited)

Ah, the roller coaster of life.

When I'm up, my creativity is flowing like a river swollen in spring. When I'm down, I have to fight the urge to crawl in a cave and hide myself and my creations from the world.

But I'm a lioness and a dragon rider. I don't hide. Not for very long, anyway. πŸ˜‰



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You don't have to be an artist or writer to get caught in the claws of self-doubt. Imposter syndrome catches many of us off guard from time to time (sometimes more often than not). It hits me hard when I least expect it, an uninvited guest I try to evict as soon as possible.

When the world shakes my foundations and it feels too scary or stressful to move forward, I take a moment in the here and now to settle into gratitude.

And when imposter syndrome strikes, two things help:

  1. I revisit the reviews from people who have loved my books.
  2. I think about so many amazing artists whose work has been torn apart by critics, and have persevered despite the haters.

Even imposter syndrome can't keep my creativity at bay, something I'm extremely grateful for. I mean, some authors suffer from writer's block. Not me. I have more ideas than I have time in the day. A blessing, to be sure.

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I've poured so much money, time, blood, sweat, and tears into these books. But I won't stop. Why? Because I love writing.

Please continue doing what's in that big heart of yours!β™₯️ You're too talented and good at writing to stop!βœπŸ’―βœŒ

!LADY

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Aw, thank you so much! Your kindness hits home. So appreciated. πŸ’–


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Still oozing with creativity I see. πŸ˜ƒ Your doing amazing things, keep on doing what you do! I am happy that you are finding success in all your endeavors.

Thank you! Same to you. I'm listening to your music right now. πŸ’–

Thanks! πŸ˜ƒ

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Hitting it on the head. I cringe when I think of my early writing attempts at writing a fictional story or a simple blog but one does grow. It's so important to have encouraging voices to keep one going.

Still wishing you success @katrina-ariel πŸ”₯🐲

Yes! As long as we keep going, we continue to evolve. Thank you for being along for the journey. I appreciate you!

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keep doing what you love and you will see the benefits!

Thank you for the encouragement! 😁

I love your writing and your creativity and the passion you have for writing. Our creations are meant to be shared, to inspire one another. Thank you for all that you do @katrina-ariel xxxxx

Thank YOU, my lovely friend! Your support means the world. Keep shining bright! πŸ’–

Much love to ya there Dragon Rider. I am in awe that you have taken ahold of your life's reigns and are learning to ride that bitch. Roller coasters are fun sometimes, especially when a joy becomes a passion becomes a thrill becomes a way of life. You are very becoming these days. Like a raven and a writing desk. Stay you love. πŸ˜˜πŸ€—

Doing my best over here to stay on track. You're in my thoughts a lot. Sending love and support to you and your family. Thanks for always having my back.

So. I go on a little trip and you post your newest? Accck, it's not fair πŸ˜‚

It'll be on my Kindle right next to John Steinbeck (seriously, I've been reading Travels with Charlie on my ride) when I get up in the morning! I'm excited to get back to it!

Semi serious question: Is that Butch? The WSU Cougar? When WSU still had a live cougar Butch was a girl. Just sayin'

Really good to see you.

Ha! That lioness is a statue at the New Orleans zoo on Monkey Hill, which is, I do believe, the highest point in NOLA. Thank you for reading my book! I hope you enjoy it, and settle in nicely now that you're home.

There is another lioness statute way closer to you. Only a couple hundred miles mostly south and a bit east. :)

Ha! That still feels incredibly far away right now. It's been so long since I've gone anywhere at all.

You are such an amazing soul and we love you! πŸ’—

Love you right back! hugglepounces

I've had no idea of this syndrome so far but I think I have it too :( however, I was just reading last night how important it is to keep yourself busy with creative actions in order to move on faster from any dark mood. You are strong, you know that girl! ❀️

Yes! Keeping busy and staying creative is the answer. It always gets me out of whatever funk I fall into. Thank you for the sweet comment! Keep going. I believe in you!

Keep being you. The world is a better place because you're here.
I say this to you too, @katrina-ariel! Let us celebrate your new book...
Looking forward to the next one!
CHEERS πŸ₯‚
!LADY πŸ˜πŸŒΊπŸ€™

Thank you! So glad to connect with you here, every time.

I am grateful to meet a talented person like you, @katrina-ariel !
You are a blessing!
!LADY πŸ˜πŸŒΊπŸ€™

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Thank you! I'm so glad you're doing PYPT again. My days have been FULL lately, and I'm working hard to meet some writing deadlines, so don't feel snubbed if I don't show up. It's not you, it's me. But I love the community you've helped create!

Pop in when you can. Even busy writers need 'non-mom' breaks :)

My sweet dragon princess. I have been battling discouragement and motivation. I have mot been in my best physical shape and it all kind of drag me down now that I need to think of my art as a way of living when I have never been able to market it. Everyday I get messages of, this deserves more views, or I love your work but that rarely translates in moving forward and damn I feel old. So I feel maybe my moment just passed me by. So I am inspired but lacking motivation to finish things, but also I think myself as a warrior and shall continue my fight to be "me"

I hear you, my friend. Loud and clear. Those feelings are hard, and valid, AND I don't think anything has passed you by. I think every creation you've offered into this world has been worth it, and you are SO BEAUTIFUL, inside and out. Keep going. I believe in you.

Thank you for the encouragement and comforting words Been worse, been better but trying to remain motivated and be gentle with mysef. I still love what I do. Thank you dragon princess

Congrats on all you have achieved, @katrina-ariel! I wish you would join us with some short story writing in The Ink Well community! 😍

Thank you so much! I wish I had time for short stories, but I'm under deadline with writing projects and my days are so full. I'm super glad to hear you're still growing community here, though. That's so important.

!LADY

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Keep doing what you love and keep doing things from the hart I still believe that THE day will come that all work pays of like you wanted it in your dreams

Aw, thank you so much! All the best to you!

Glad you found some inspiration here. All the best to you!