Hello everyone! So, for this week the Ladies of Hive have two emotive questions to play around with. Hehe. Here goes…
1️⃣ If you are in a bad mood, do you prefer to be left alone or have someone to cheer you up?
Every morning when I wake up, I usually pray for and look forward to a happy day which means a good mood all the way! I don't like being in a bad mood but some situations cannot be helped. Whenever I am in a bad mood, maybe sad or pissed, I prefer to have someone cheer me up!
It's not easy to cheer up a person who is in a bad mood. It takes the perception and knowledge of such a person.
When I am in a bad mood, I like to withdraw into myself, reflecting and examining the situation or incident that threw me into the mood, trying to understand the reason why such a situation happened,...etc. Hahaha! I do have such fun in my head.
When there is no one to cheer me up, after a 'fun' time in my head, I cheer myself up! To be left alone never works well for me because I would feel ignored like no one cared. But a simple, "Hey, what's going on with you? You are quiet. Is everything okay?" makes me happy and I come out of my bad mood! If he/she is a person I can talk to, I go ahead and open up. If not, I just smile and move on.
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2️⃣ Would you ever take back someone who cheated?
It's a simple NO.
Experience has taught me that everyone has been cheated on at some point in time. I don't necessarily mean a male-female relationship. It could be a sister or a friend or a parent. Do you know a mother can cheat on her daughter by loving an outsider more than she would love her daughter? It happens and it's cheating.
I have been cheated on several times and it's heartbreaking every time. Sometimes, I think it would get better like I won't feel any pain but I still do. That's because I am that sensitive. I have very few people I call my friends and hold them very close to me. So you can imagine my hurt when any of them cheats on me!
One thing I value so much is loyalty. I practice it and expect it in equal measure from people close to me. Outsiders or acquaintances don't owe me any loyalty.
I remember a colleague looking at me and asking, "Why do you like to take a panadol for other people's headaches?" Believe me, I stared at him in shock that day and did a lot of reflection. I did not realize that I always went the extra mile to help, beyond and above what any reasonable person would do, and defend people to the point that some people would fight me because I stood in the way of the people they wanted to fight.
Despite this, I have been cheated on. Some people did it on purpose while some unknowingly but It hurts every time. I see cheating as disloyalty, a way of saying a person is not good enough so I choose someone else.
When I discover the cheating, I move on and never look back again. This is because whoever cheated once, will most likely (99%) do it again.
Importantly, I have learned to love myself, know my self-worth and learn to leave the scene when the ovation is still loud.
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It's hard to have someone which's be there when we were in bad mood. For me, I have close friend but when I bad mood I choose to be alone for much time and next asked them to cheer me up. Or we would to hangout when I'm in good mood again.
I agree with you about the cheater one.
Nice sharing...
Thanks a lot for your visit and kind comment. I see a lot of people would prefer to left alone when in a bad mood but this does not work for me. It would only make me more sad. 🙂
Thanks for the invite, I shall get to it.
Being in either of these situation can be emotionally stressful and I would say that the answers to these questions depends on the situation too.
I will give an answer to mine in my blog.
I totally agree. Every circumstance is different and our emotions change with time too. Thanks a lot for your visit. 😊
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On your answer to the second question I totally agree with you that cheating is not only involved with romantic relationships but with other relationships we can think of either work related, family related or friendship related. Cheating on someone hurts alot the pain is stabbing.
I enjoyed reading your entry, I will try to put forth mine soon. I wish you the best of luck in the contest.
True, cheating hurts a lot and it takes a strong heart to overcome the pain and not breakdown from it. Thanks for your visit and looking forward to your entry! 😊
I understand how you feel because I have been cheated on several times, even when you try to forgive but yet still can't forget. The best thing to do is to move on.
Well said Nancy. The best thing is to move on and forgive such a person. Thanks for your insightful comment. 🙂
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I have learned to love myself, know my self-worth
You are a good person, deserving of loyalty of friend!
Good luck with the contest. Thanks for sharing, @kemmyb.
“The worst pain in the world goes beyond the physical. Even further beyond any other emotional pain one can feel. It is the betrayal of a friend.” - Heather Brewer
Brilliant quote and very true. Such a betrayal would hurt a lot. Thanks for your insightful comment and support. Good morning! 😊
Thank you for sharing and I too, withdraw myself. 🤗❤️
Thank you for your visit. 🙂
Most welcome @kemmyb😊
Thank you @kemmyb for inviting me. I will be participating
You are welcome. I look forward to your entry. 🙂
Indeed loyalty is everything if they he was not, they will never be so why accept them a second time just to come and fill spaces meant for good people. Nice entry
😄 That's a good one. Very true. Loyalty is everything and once broken, it can be very difficult to fix. Thanks a lot for your lovely comment. 😊
A couple of days back I saw this quote on IG by this account "sh*tologyofficial"
That rang so true for me, and after reading this I feel that you'd be able to relate to this too :D
Oh, yes! I do relate and this quote captures what loyalty is all about. Brilliant! Thanks for this insightful quote. 😊
Oh Yes! Loyalty is a big deal. And it transcends beyond just sexual relationships. Also, platonic relationships require loyalty.
Thank you for this insightful post @kemmyb.
Indeed, every relationship needs loyalty to bloom! Thanks for lovely comment. I appreciate your visit. 😊
You are most welcome.