I'm sure no matter how brief you have experienced your fair share...Exactly, that pendulum swings, one way or an other, you can't create or destroy energy, you give something to someone, you are taking from another. Material energy or emotional energy, rights, whatever it might be. I don't want my natural femininity attacked on the jobsite so I have no business attacking their natural masculinity. I think that's called a fair exchange? If you make a big deal out of too much and freak out all the time, their excuse for us not being fit is too emotional and hysterical so wouldn't getting upset at everything play into that stereotype and prove them right?
Also a poit I like to bring up when I take a girl that wants to quit under my wing. I catch wind of everything even if they don't tell me or don't know the. A guy will come get me to help them out(some guys really are total sweethearts on the job)... If you let them win and get to you, it sets a standard for repeated behavior and the next woman will have to deal with it in the future. If we stand our ground , it's still not fair but now they see it's not gonna work so no point wasting the energy trying and it ends there.
I know some don't like to hear this, but I actually see this in the difference between raising boys and raising girls. With boys you have to be way more consistent when you lay out the rules of acceptable and unacceptable behaviour. One slip in letting them get away with something and you'll have them pushing all the boundaries for weeks. With girls a general consistency is fine and they'll still know that just because you relaxed that one time it doesn't mean the boundaries are gone.
That is perfectly said. All of it. No matter what, they will always push the boundaries, I think they are just wired to be that way and that's probably what makes them more adventurous than women. They push their own boundaries to be honest. when they do, let them know in away they understand as in "man language" or boy language because they also don't register the information the same as girls/women do. I noticed a lot of time, how something is communicated matters a lot as to how much of it will register.