Turning Failures into Ways to Lead a Meaningful Life #𝟐𝟎𝟎𝐭𝐑

in Ladies of Hive β€’ 4 months ago

Life may be burdensome to some because of the endless struggles but let's not forget how those people always strive hard to do them all despite being faced with countless failures in an attempt to make them more bearable. Facing difficulties may lead to disappointments but we humans are being created as a gift thus the challenges that we might encounter should be our aspiration to do better to gain a meaningful life.
In my understanding, a meaningful life means having my life to live to the fullest, having an awareness of my strengths and weaknesses and seeking growth within the failures that I encounter. I can still remember the feeling of failure while I was trying to apply for my dream university but did not get past, I was too nervous and devastated for I feared that maybe I wouldn't be able to pursue college just because I failed to enter my dream university.
As soon as I wasn't admitted , I felt this pain questioning my credibilities at that time, Soon enough I was comforted and encouraged by my mother to try and reapply in other universities which leads to where I'm studying now.
Leading a meaningful life is when I can confidently say to myself that I am trying or doing my best to achieve something, may it be dreams or to complete simple hurdles in life, what all that matters is that I feel satisfied and happy with what I'm doing. For instance, as I am still a student I find it meaningful when I'm trying to pour out my strength into doing projects and daily assignments, Most of the time I let my anxieties get the best out of me and push me to mess up, for my thoughts will be all over the place.
It's even more stressful that I feel pressured by those people that surround me and I end up being in circles with doubts and insecurities. Leading a meaningful life would fluctuate if one is full of negative thoughts and energy, I realize this as I grow older, I get to reflect on my actions and somehow I pay more attention to understanding my emotions, surely it was not an easy task to do change since old habits die hard.

I could only feel like I'm leading a meaningful life when I'm able to achieve something. It has always been like that and somehow it's too tiring for my well-being. As I have tried to reminisce about my early university years, I've realized how pent-up I am. I could hardly find relaxation within those years since I felt the need to achieve something minus the fact that I'll be kicked out from my course if I wasn't able to maintain acceptable grades and I didn't want to start ranting about how pressuring the third year is for me.

The old me has been hard for myself, I just deeply realized that a while ago, I mean there's nothing wrong with trying to do my best to feel satisfied with the results but then I had forgotten how to enjoy myself and cherish those hard moments and its lessons, even as I was doubting myself there are moments wherein my efforts would pay and I'd be given recognition for the things that I've achieved.


I know I've still got a lot of roads to cross, the journey may come as a bumpy one and I might stumble while paving for the future but then again I should try to always remember the reason why I want to achieve something and that would always be to lead a more meaningful life ahead of me even if failures and disappointments would block my way, I should continue to clear the road to gain a better future.

That is all for my blog, I hope that you've enjoy reading it Hivers! Have a great day ahead

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Daghan gid kaayo tang ma again na disappointments pero at the end of it all naa gihapoy hope na ipa feel ni good natoπŸ₯°

Very well said Madamme @swtzyserrah

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Life can be devastating, but don't give up and always try your best. Good job for surviving until now.

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We can give ourselves a time to cry and sulk, especially experiencing those failures but, let's make sure that at the end of the day, we will try again, and we'll try to move forward while also looking forward to our happy future. You are doing it now so sana di ka mag sawa. UwU

Very well said @ruffatotmeee, you're right all that we need to do in life is to try and try do our very best even if we are to failed at some point, salamat for such a heartwarming message πŸ₯°

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According to what you describe @madimoire : "enjoy and appreciate those difficult moments and their lessons, even when I doubted myself", they are those situations that leave a learning experience and help personal growth. Thank you for sharing your experience.

Yes thank you for sharing your thoughts about my blog Ma'am @cautiva-30

After reading your blog i realised that i used to get so bummed out when things didn't go my way. But then I realized, every 'failure' is just a chance to try something new. Now I see every setback as 200 new opportunities to get closer to my goals thank you so much for sharing your story πŸ’–βœ¨

I'm really glad that you've read my blog and that you've gain something about it, let's both fight for our own dreams @melll

Rejections are redirections. That means God is working and leading you to His path. Just enjoy the process inday @madimoire

Thank you so much ate, I'll make sure to always remember that @bingbing1218

I really enjoyed reading your article, it’s such a great motivation for sharing with everyone. Everything will be better! Wish you all the best of luck 🀞

Thankk you @wennidyy, I'm really glad that you have enjoyed reading my blog😍

When I was preparing the questions, I wanted someone to share their journey by incorporating failure and a meaningful life. If you don't fail in life, you won't be able to grow, you won't understand yourself and you won't achieve what you wanna achieve. It's a part of living a meaningful life. You need a purpose in life. Thanks for sharing your personal journey with us. I appreciate that...

Goodluck...

The questions made are truly intriguing and I'm really glad that you have given me some of your precious time to read my blog, Thank you so much @priyanarc πŸ₯°


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Beautiful writeup, life gets so messy at times that I begin to have anxiety disorder.. But we've all got to thrive with faith,challenges are part of life.

I'm sure that you'll be able to fight your anxiety it may not be easy but its also important to seek some help with those people that you know that will help and be with you no matter what happens and if you ever feel like you've only wanted to fight alone then always pray and trust that everything will be alright @emywillz πŸ₯°

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