Witnessing A Prelude to Forever: My Journey of Being A Maid of Honor// Part 1

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Another day for sharing a memorable experience. Good day Hivers! May you all be doing well and filled with happiness. What I'm about to share to you all is an experience that's been important to me and to my family .I always dreamed of attending a wedding, when I was a child it would bring me great pleasure if I was invited to become a couple's flower girl because I like the idea of dispersing flowers through the aisle. It made me feel really special and I feel so happy whenever I witness a lovers tying the knot.

My Aunt had always been single for her entire 33 years of existence, I've witnessed how she prioritizes her family first and to devote herself with work, her life only revolved around these two precious things for her but despite being in a due to the calendar, she's a hopeless romantic who had also been dreaming of having someone that will stay by her side throughout the years and to have someone whom she can pour out her love, that leads her into meeting her groom to be.


Her lover was a kind of person that is polar opposite to her, My Aunt is very independent and strict while the person she fell in love with is indulgent and has an easygoing personality. At first, I still couldn't process how the two became together for I know very well that my Aunt is someone who always wanted to do things her way and she always had this scary aura whenever she was mad, it's a mystery to me how did she fell in love with him but as I've encountered her groom to be for many times I've realized that she found the one who will understand and love her all throughout her life. Her soon-to-be wedded husband is so kind and forgiving and he always had the patience to stand whenever my Aunt would display her temperaments.


They were both of legal age that's why as soon as they reached the anniversary of being a couple, they quickly planned to settle down each having a wedding in the church required a lot of patience and for both of them, They still needed to get a lot of documents and they need to get through a lot of seminars, it sounds like a pain but then both of them are eager to follow what their heart wants that's why even if it takes months to get things done, they still do it without complaining. As soon as they've got the papers and arranged the schedule for the wedding they now move with the real and arduous preparation for the reception and the whole entourage of the wedding.


I want to try to be part of the entourage, the thought of it excites me and I was more than happy when I found out that I'll be one of the maid of honor. Though it may sound strange to some normally, it only requires one but then my Aunt made it happen for me to be part of it. I even searched through the internet what are roles of being a Maid of Honor since it would be my first time and at some point I was stressed out knowing that being one requires effort and I need to be fully capable of supporting the bride throughout the process. I had my doubts but then I thought that this chance wouldn't come to often for me to decline it, I realized that I should just try and show what I'm capable of doing and try to do my best to fulfill my role.


Once the whole entourage was decided, we now move on to the fitting of dress. The Bridal Boutique/ Shop that my Aunt has chosen was Viela and Tiara Bridals. It was located at 2nd floor, Z Plaza Building D. Jakosalem Street Barangay Zapatera, Cebu City. It has an affordable rental dresses which best caters our needs.


As my Aunt was still choosing what would like best, the other employees assisted me in fitting my dress, the themed color was Burgundy. I immediately liked the dress because I thought it suited me and I liked the whole details of it.


The wedding dress that my Aunt had chosen, seems really nice and I know it will suit her.Now that everything has been set: the wedding date, reception, catering, dress, etc. All that needs to be done is to have the wedding itself. Along with the wedding, we also took the pre-nup and post-nuptials shots. Everything has been quite a memory for me. A memory that is great and surely adds up to an unforgettable experience.

This photo was taken during the pre-nup shoot. Source: Mind Blinks Photography


A role model that's what my Aunt means to me, I've treated her as my second mother who never failed to give me guidance every now and then, and as a celebration for her upcoming wedding she had been given a bridal shower by her friends.

I would like to share the whole happenings of the wedding on my next blog, so I hope that you'll stay tuned and wait for it. That's all, Sayoñara Hivers! Thank you for reading

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I think the color Burgundy is a lovely choice, looking forward to seeing the next chapter. ❤️

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I am excited to see the photos of the wedding Ma'am @madimoire I'm sure your aunt is so happy 😊
You're also thoughtful and sweet Ma'am. You really search on the internet the role of a maid of honor.

Yes po, since it's also my first being a maid of honor. Thank you for reading 🥰

I remember going from being a flower girl to a bridesmaid. I was too shy at first, but later I felt touched to witness such special moments in life. You look pretty in your maroon dress. 🫶❤️

Thank you @jeannmazing, I believe that being a flower girl is one of every girl's dream 😍

Being Maid of Honor, is indeed an honor! I have never had that privilege and probably never will at this point. Enjoy the time and remember it well. I look forward to seeing your next blog of the wedding! Take care and enjoy!

Oh thank you for reading, indeed it was such an honor to be part of this memorable celebration

You are very welcome! Take care!

Awww congrats to the couple. When it comes to love, it is never too late. For sure while your Aunt is single, she already did a lot which gave her a lot of life lesson and experiences. And now, she's more than ready to be wife. And thats so amazing you are maid of honor. That's one of the important role in marriage ha. And to b part of it is truly an honor.

You're right about that, she's been single because she focused too much on her studies before but I guess it's all worth it now🥰

Best wishes to your aunt miss @madimoire and God bless being one of the maid of honors. You look great in that dress. 😍

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Wedding is a beautiful gift! Congratulations and best wishes! :)

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Weddings are fun, more so when it is an event in your family circle. The excitement couldn't be contained. I wish your aunt and her soon-to-be hubby a wonderful life together.

Your dress looks great on you btw ❤️ Looking forward to read about the ceremony 😉

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I have never experienced this before, so I'm looking forward to the wedding day. May you share it with us. Good bless you 😇

Suree Ma'am @teacherlynlyn, I'll share it to you in the next days. Thank you for reading 😍

Best wishes for the both of them 🥰

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