👶After 12 Years My Life Brings a Little Surprise / Language( 🇺🇸 /🇪🇸) 👨‍👩‍👧‍👦

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Good community of Hive Family today I want to share with you my experience after 12 years I am a mother for the second time, at first I could not believe it, start from scratch almost as a first time mom because they are many years apart, when I had my first daughter Antonella I was 23 years old now I am 35 years old, to conform my suspicions the news was very beautiful because my husband and I wanted to have another baby for my daughter was not only daughter, because having a brother (a) is a very beautiful experience.

It was really the discomforts that gave me away the nausea, vomiting, dizziness were not normal, We found out when I was 6 weeks I went to the consultation with the Gynecologist and when the echo confirmed the pregnancy, it was like a grain of rice, so small and throwing so much joke to the mother were the words of the Doctor.
The first trimester was really hard, I could hardly tolerate any food, all smells made me sick and I wanted to vomit automatically, I could not cook the smell of seasonings, meats, or any strong smell made me vomit, I ate very little food and without any appetite, I ate because it was necessary for the baby's development, the only thing that did not provoke me were fruits, I never imagined that this pregnant would be like this, with my first pregnancy I also vomited until the last day but it was only that, not if it is because of the age that the discomforts are stronger.

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But each of the discomforts are worth it, because it is a great blessing from God, to have the joy of being a mother again, thanks to God the pregnancy is going super well and we are going with 20/20 in the evaluation of the exams, my daughter is very happy, she talks to the baby, she tells him that she is waiting for him to hurry, She wants it to be a girl and if so, her name will be Evanella because her name is Antonella and so will be the Nellas, hahaha if it is a boy, his name will be Luciano Alessandro, I will still love him, it is amazing the maturity he has acquired after knowing that he will be the big sister.

We still do not know the sex of the baby at the last consultation he was 13 weeks gestation, but he did not show up, he was sitting, sucking his thumb, he did not show up I hope that at the next consultation I hope he will show up, because we want to call him by his name and not keep calling him rice, because that is how we baptized him when we expected rice since that was his size in the first echo.

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I am already 16 weeks and I am over the discomfort and best of all I no longer vomit, I can cook and dizziness are now very few, I already have an appetite and I am eating without any problem, I am taking care of myself with meals, everything super healthy, grilled food, lots of truths, fruits and water and above all taking my vitamins for the proper development of the baby.

For the whole family it was a very beautiful news to know that a new member will arrive to the two families, because on both sides everyone is very big, for my family my oldest nephew is 23 years old and my youngest niece is 9 years old, on my husband's side my oldest nephew is 17 years old and my youngest niece is 10 years old.

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Buenas comunidad de Hive Family hoy quiero compartir con ustedes mi experiencia después de 12 Años soy Madre por segunda vez, al principio no me lo podía creer, comenzar desde cero casi como mamá primeriza ya que son muchos años de diferencia, cuando tuve mi primera Hija Antonella yo tenía 23 años actualmente tengo 35 años, al conformar mi sospechas la noticia fue muy hermosa ya que mi esposo y yo queríamos tener otro bebé para mi hija no fuera hija única, porque tener un Hermano(a) es una experiencia muy hermosa.

Realmente fueron los malestares que me delataron las náuseas, vómitos, mareos no fueron normales, Nos enteramos cuando tenía 6 semanas que fui a la consulta con la Ginecólogo y al realizarme el eco me confirma el embarazo, era como un granito de arroz, tan pequeño y echando tanta broma a la mamá fueron las palabras de la Doctora.
El primer trimestre fue realmente duro, casi no toleraba ningún alimento, todos los olores me producían asco, y ganas de vomitar automáticamente, no podía cocinar el olor de los aliños, carnes, o cualquier olor fuerte me producía vómitos, comía muy pocas cantidades de comida y sin apetito alguno, comía porque era necesario para el desarrollo del bebé, lo único que no me provoca eran las frutas, jamás me imaginé que este embarazada sería así, con mi primer embarazo también vomité hasta el último día pero solo era eso, no si es por por la edad que los malestares son más fuertes.

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Pero cada uno de los malestares valen la pena, porque es una gran bendición de Dios, volver a tener la dicha de ser madre, gracias a Dios el embarazo va super bien y vamos con 20/20 en la evaluación de los exámenes, mi hija está muy feliz, habla con el bebé, le dice que lo está esperando que se apure, es más le busco nombre las instante, ella quiere que sea niña y si es así se llamará Evanella porque ella se llama Antonella y así serán las Nellas, jajaja si es Varón se llamará Luciano Alessandro igual lo voy a querer, es sorprendente la madurez que adquirido luego de saber que será la hermana mayor.

Aún no sabemos el sexo del bebé en la última consulta tenía 13 semanas de gestación, pero no sé dejó ver, estaba sentado, chupando dedo, no se dejó ver espero que en la próxima consulta espero que se deje ver, porque ya queremos llamarlo por su nombre y no seguirle diciendo arroz, porque así lo bautizamos cuando nos esperamos arroz ya que ese era su tamaño en el primer eco.

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Ya tengo 16 semanas y ya superé los malestares y lo mejor de todo ya no vomito, puedo cocinar y los mareos ahora son muy pocos, ya tengo apetito y estoy comiendo sin ningún problema, me estoy cuidando mucho con las comidas todo super saludable, comida a la plancha, muchas verdades, frutas y agua y sobre todo tomándome mis vitaminas para el buen desarrollo del bebé.

Para todo la Familia fue una noticia muy hermosa saber que llegara un nuevo Integrante a las 2 Familia, ya que, porque por ambas partes todos están muy grandes, por mi familia mi sobrino mayor tiene 23años y mi sobrina menor 9años, por parte de mi esposo el mi sobrino mayor tiene 17años y mi sobrina menor 10 años.

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All images are personal images taken from my Redmi 9t cell phone / flyer maker editing software.

Todas las imágenes son personales tomadas de mi celular Redmi 9t / programa para editar flyer maker.

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Congratulations! I can only imagine the joy you and your family must feel! Thanks for sharing and please keep us posted! Take care and have a lovely day!🤗💜 !LADY

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thank you for the support of this community, much loved by all the women in hive. It was always on my mind to share with you such a great experience. 👼

You are very welcome friend! Take care!🤗💜

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Congratulations! It's a big milestone in any family's life and I'm glad you're feeling a bit better. Pregnancy can be rough at times, but as you say, worth every moment. Take care and looking forward to reading about your adventure.

This is such a great news. Congratulations!. Your daughter looks so happy from the picture. I wish you a very safe delivery ✨