Don't worry and be happy. (LOH #212)

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Greetings and blessings to all the ladies of Hive, I hope you are feeling very well, and have a successful week, today I join this great weekly contest, offered to us by this beautiful community, this week's questions are great, I take this opportunity to congratulate @trucklife-family for bringing us these questions, which lead us to reflect a little, I think there is a lot to talk about on this topic, and that there are many mixed thoughts and feelings regarding the two questions, I want to start with the first.

Do you think we are happier today than in times past?

According to what we are taught in life, we could define happiness as an emotion that our body experiences, a perfect feeling, when something satisfies us, we are happy, when we get a good deal, when our children reach their goals, among others. many other things, for me this is the theoretical, what has been instilled in us, but, I believe that we can also be happy, even if something good or positive were not happening to us in our lives, I mean that if we understood that Happiness can not only be felt when what comes that we are expecting or wishing for, but we can also find it when we value and enjoy what we have, this is something that is reflected much more in the current generation.

In times past, people learned to be happy with the little things that life presents to us, now, we are more dependent on the material, the banal, I think that a large part of society currently lives on parasciences, and that all that happiness that What they proclaim is false, we get carried away or give importance to things that are not worth it, and this takes away part of the happiness that we should feel for the simple fact of being here, it is never too little, and it is never enough, being human is usually so dissatisfied, I think this is the main reason why it is so difficult for us to be happy, much more now, I think it would be easier if we learned to live, live and let live, be happy with the little things.


What brings us true happiness and how important is it for you to pursue it?

As I mentioned in the previous paragraph, unfortunately we have separated ourselves a little from what really matters in this life, human values ​​have weakened, I am already at an age in which I have learned, and I have lived, and perhaps I am a little more clear about what truly matters to me and makes me happy, I do not pursue happiness, I simply live, day by day, I enjoy every moment, or every opportunity, now I understand that being happy is being good with myself, it is feeling and being in peace on my way through this world, as a mother, I try to teach my little daughter to learn to identify what is really important, family values, that the opinions of others do not define her, much less her happiness, that she be strong and that her self-esteem is never weakened by nothing or for anyone, I think that these things will help her and teach her a lot on her path through this life.


Now, I say goodbye my friends, it was a pleasure to have shared with everyone my opinions on this topic, we continue reading, blessings.


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Saludos y bendiciones para todas las damas de Hive, espero que se encuentren muy bien, y tengan una semana exitosa, hoy me uno a este genial concurso semanal, que nos ofrece esta hermosa comunidad, las preguntas de esta semana están de lujo, aprovecho para felicitar a @trucklife-family por traernos estas preguntas, que nos llevan un poco a la reflexión, pienso que hay mucho de que hablar sobre este tema, y que hay muchos pensamientos y sentimientos encontrados con respecto a las dos preguntas, quiero comenzar con la primera.

¿Crees que somos más felices hoy que en tiempos pasados.?

Según lo que nos van enseñando en la vida, la felicidad podríamos definirla como una emoción que experimenta nuestro cuerpo, un sentimiento perfecto, cuando algo nos satisface, somos felices, cuando se nos da un buen negocio, cuando nuestros hijos alcanzan sus metas, entre otras tantas cosas, esto es para mí, lo teórico, lo que nos han inculcado, pero, creo que, también se puede ser feliz, aún, si no nos estuviera pasando algo bueno o positivo en nuestras vidas, quiero decir que si entendiéramos que la felicidad no solo se puede sentir cuando llega lo que estamos esperando o deseando, sino que también podemos encontrarla cuando valoramos y disfrutamos lo que tenemos, esto es algo que se ve reflejado mucho más en la generación actual.

En tiempos pasados las personas aprendían a ser felices con las pequeñas cosas que la vida nos presenta, ahora, somos más dependientes a lo material, lo banal, pienso que gran parte de la sociedad, actualmente viven de paraciencias, y que toda esa felicidad que pregonan es falsa, nos dejamos llevar o le damos importancia a cosas que no valen la pena, y esto nos resta parte de la felicidad que deberíamos sentir por el simple hecho de estar aquí, nunca es muy poco, y nunca es suficiente, el ser humano suele ser tan inconforme, creo que esta es la razón principal de que nos cueste tanto ser felices, mucho más ahora, pienso que sería mas fácil si aprendiéramos a vivir, vivir y dejar vivir, ser felices con las pequeñas cosas.


¿Qué nos trae la verdadera felicidad y qué importancia tiene para ti perseguirla?

Como mencione en el párrafo anterior, lamentablemente nos hemos separado un poco de lo que realmente importa en esta vida, se han debilitado los valores humanos, yo ya tengo una edad en la que he aprendido, y he vivido, y quizás este un poco más clara con respecto a lo que verdaderamente me importa y me hace feliz, no persigo la felicidad, simplemente vivo, día a día, disfruto de cada momento, o cada oportunidad, ahora entiendo que ser feliz es estar bien conmigo misma, es sentir y estar en paz en mi camino por este mundo, como madre, trato de enseñarle a mi hijita, que aprenda a identificar, lo que es realmente importante, los valores familiares, que las opiniones de los demás no la definen, y mucho menos su felicidad, que sea fuerte y que su auto estima nunca se debilite por nada ni por nadie, pienso que estas cosas la ayudaran y enseñaran mucho en su camino por esta vida.


Ahora, me despido mis amigos, fue todo un gusto haber compartido con todos, mis opiniones acerca de este tema, nos seguimos leyendo, bendiciones.


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According to what you describe, happiness can be found when we value and enjoy what we have, it is very valuable to teach your little daughter, very cute, to identify family values, thank you friend for sharing your reflections,
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That's right my friend, we have to stop looking so hard for happiness that we could have in front of us, we just have to value and enjoy. Thanks for stopping by, greetings. 🤗

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Happiness is found by accepting oneself first and foremost. See happiness in all you do.
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Exactly my friend. Thanks for stopping by, blessings

Por las pequeñas cosas en la vida que nos hacen felices. Un abrazo @marivic10
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Abrazos mi querida amiga, gracias por el apoyo.