For some people, they fall in love suddenly, while for others, their affection and feelings for the other gender grow over time, making it a gradual process. Falling in love with a person suddenly is what we call "love at first sight."
Looking at a lady from afar for the first time and suddenly developing romantic feelings for her means you like her, and by that you take the process to talk to her and let her know how you feel. It's possible she will give in, or she might not. It depends on how you approach her; maybe she is not interested in you. Either of the two will make her say no.
Speaking about myself, I believe that true love grows gradually because it's not possible to fall in love with a person in a few days, so it's going to take time to know if I am in love or in lust.
Let's talk about relationships and the keys to making them last and become stronger.
Commitment
To make a relationship strong and healthy, both partners involved have to be committed to it. One-sided love or affection can't make a relationship last long, and there is a possibility that a relationship is going to crash if both partners are not committed to it.
value each other
When you look into your partner's eyes, are you happy that he or she is the one you are in a relationship with? If not, then it's better you quit that relationship because you don't value having that so-called partner of yours if you are not happy having them.
Talk to each other with respect.
Words do hurt people because they play a major role in their lives. Some people don't know how to talk, so they end up saying hurtful things to their partners. Talking to your partner with respect will earn you the same respect that you deserve from them, which will make your relationship last and be healthy.
No secret
Why keep something from your partner? That's very bad, and it can break a bond between two partners. You fucked up? It's okay. The best you can do is let your partner know that you did. Telling your partners your moves and everything you do makes a relationship last longer.
Forgiveness
After your partner tells you a secret or hurts you in one way or another, will you forgive them? It's best to forgive, let go of anything that caused a fight between you both, and move on from it.
Spend quality time together
In a relationship, it's nice when both partners go out with each other, watch movies together once in a while, chat, talk on the phone, have dinner together, and do a lot of fun activities together. Just make sure there is a time when both of you can have fun together.
Lastly, make your partner your best friend.
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It’s great to hear that😊.
Thank you for your comment🤭
As for me love is so deep that some one can imagine. All the same by this qualities you listed I think is the best.
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In a couple relationship, every detail counts, the aspects you share with us are valuable: not keeping secrets, practicing forgiveness, spending good times together, valuing each other.... They are all part of a healthy relationship.
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Such a post on this particular day is the best, you just saved some relationships from crashing.
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You have provided a whole lot of wonderful advice here.
I would especially like to comment about forgiveness. It is very important. No human being is fool proof. Everyone of us commit mistake. The point is that if you really have to live with someone, live with clean heart. If you cannot clean your heart, better to part your ways.
It’s great to see you read through the post and drop this comment. Thank youz
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Everything you had stated here is accurate. I think forgiveness is one of the major things that keeps a relationship going.
If we do not learn to forgive each other we will harbour a lot of pain within us which will end up crushing us in the near future.
Thanks for the invite. I will surely make time to take part in this contest.
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Same as you, I believe that true love grows gradually, over time, allowing us to build trust and understanding with our partner. It takes patience, effort and commitment to build a long-lasting and healthy relationship :) Thanks for sharing your thoughts !LADY
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Forgiveness is always the key and a couple should always be opened to each other.
Great write up
Thank you dear