Hola amigas de la comunidad de Ladies Of Hive, espero que se encuentren bien el día de hoy. El amor está en el aire como dicen algunos cuando se acerca febrero, mes en el que las demostraciones de amor se multiplican y aunque es algo que debería ser demostrado diariamente, muchos usan este mes para dedicarle un momento especial a esa persona que aman y a los seres especiales que hay en sus vidas. Me gustaría invitar a @mandysmoon y @erigm a qué participen en este nuevo concurso #225 respondiendo a las preguntas de @trucklife-family💘
Hello friends of the Ladies Of Hive community, I hope you are well today. Love is in the air as some say when February approaches, month in which the demonstrations of love multiply and although it is something that should be demonstrated daily, many use this month to dedicate a special moment to that person they love and the special beings in their lives. I'd like to invite @mandysmoon and @erigm to participate in this new contest #225 responding to @trucklife-family's questions💘
¿Cuándo fue la primera vez que dijiste "te quiero" a alguien de tu vida que no fuera tu familia?
Y cuéntanos cuál es tu 'lenguaje del amor'? | When was the first time you said, “I love you” to someone in your life other than family?
And tell us what your 'love language' is?
La primera vez que le dije a una persona que no fuera de mi familia, en plan amoroso fue en la secundaria que había un chico que mostraba mucho interés en conocerme y que me hizo sentir muy especial en esos tiempos, fue realmente como el primer amor que tuve y donde sentí que era amada a pesar de mis cambios de humor y de mi baja autoestima. Este chico siempre fue bastante amable y muy atento, lo recuerdo tan bien como si hubiese sido ayer, creo que fue de las pocas personas que se tomó el tiempo de conocerme a profundidad, recuerdo que sentía mucha inquietud cada vez que lo veía, era simpático para mí y me hacía sentir especial por lo que el te quiero fue muy facil de decir ya que me sentía especial cuando pasábamos tiempo juntos. Aún lo tengo en redes sociales y el ya tiene una familia muy bonita, siento que es un gran padre porque siempre fue una persona sumamente especial y muy cariñoso, me alegra saber que su vida está llena de amor y que ha logrado muchas cosas positivas en su vida.
The first time I told a person that was not from my family, in a loving way was in high school that there was a boy who showed a lot of interest in knowing me and who made me feel very special in those times, it was really like the first love I had and where I felt that I was loved despite my mood swings and my low self-esteem. This guy was always quite kind and very attentive, I remember him as well as if it was yesterday, I think he was one of the few people who took the time to know me in depth, I remember feeling very uneasy every time I saw him, he was nice to me and made me feel special so the I love you was very easy to say as I felt special when we spent time together. I still have him on social networks and he already has a very nice family, I feel he is a great father because he was always an extremely special person and very loving, I am happy to know that his life is full of love and that he has achieved many positive things in his life.
Mi lenguaje del amor siempre ha sido ser atenta a todos los detalles y prestar atención a las cosas que son importantes para la otra persona, a pesar de que soy bastante tímida cuando ya me siento en confianza me gusta que las personas se sientan escuchadas y que puedan encontrar en mi compañía a alguien que no los va a juzgar. También suelo ser de esas que se preocupan por lo que el otro siente y piensa, me gusta que la persona con la que este se sienta querida y que pueda encontrar en mi a alguien en quien pueda confiar y que no tenga vergüenza de mostrarse tal cual es.
My love language has always been to be attentive to all the details and pay attention to the things that are important to the other person, although I am quite shy when I feel confident I like that people feel heard and that they can find in my company someone who will not judge them. I also tend to be one of those who care about what the other person feels and thinks, I like that the person with whom I am with feels loved and that they can find in me someone they can trust and who is not ashamed to show themselves as they are.
¿Cuáles son algunos límites personales que crees que es importante mantener en una relación? ¿Qué opinas de la independencia y la unión en una relación? | What are some personal boundaries that you feel are important to uphold in a relationship? And what are your feelings around independence and togetherness in a relationship?
Cómo en toda relación los límites son sumamente importantes, todos somos diferentes y pensamos diferente, siento que cuando empiezas a conocer a alguien es importante poner en la mesa todo aquello que forme parte de su vida, desde las cosas que le hacen sentir inseguro hasta las cosas que le desagradan o molestan. El respeto debe ser el límite primordial en la relación, debes conocer a la persona y valorar que se muestre tal cual es y a la vez esa persona también debe saber que eres un ser humano que comete errores y que no siempre la relación va a estar bien pero mientras exista el respeto y la comunicación asertiva entonces las cosas fluirán de la mejor manera para ambos.
As in any relationship limits are extremely important, we are all different and think differently, I feel that when you start to know someone it is important to put on the table everything that is part of your life, from the things that make you feel insecure to the things that displease or annoy you. Respect must be the primordial limit in the relationship, you must know the person and value that he shows himself as he is and at the same time that person must also know that you are a human being who makes mistakes and that not always the relationship will be fine but as long as there is respect and assertive communication then things will flow in the best way for both of you.
En la relación ambas partes deben ser independientes, tener sus propias responsabilidades y hacerse cargo de las situaciones que vivan individualmente es fundamental para llevar una sana relación. Siempre debe haber un equilibrio donde ambos se sientan bien y que no sea todo un 70% a 30%, es decir que una de las partes sea quien mantenga la relación, esto al final solo debilitaria la relación y al final las cosas terminarían para bien o para mal. Cuando estás enfocado en superarte deseas que tú pareja esté también en tu mismo nivel emocional y mental, por lo que es muy importante encontrar el balance para que cada uno tenga su espacio donde puedan ser sin perderse dentro de la relación.
In the relationship both parties must be independent, have their own responsibilities and take charge of the situations they live individually is essential to lead a healthy relationship. There should always be a balance where both feel good and that everything is not 70% to 30%, that is to say that one of the parties is the one who maintains the relationship, this would only weaken the relationship and in the end things would end for better or worse. When you are focused on bettering yourself you want your partner to also be on the same emotional and mental level as you, so it is very important to find the balance so that each one has their space where they can be without getting lost in the relationship.
Gracias por llegar hasta el final de este post, espero que les haya gustado y agradezco su apoyo y sus comentarios, les envío un fuerte abrazo 🤗
Thanks for making it to the end of this post, I hope you liked it and I appreciate your support and your comments, I send you a big hug 🤗
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Que lindo post Mi Corazon ❤️ , Experiencias que nos dejan lindos recuerdo de lo vivido hasta llegar a la madures para luego saber lo que lo queremos que sera para toda la vida cuando lo volvamos a un decir TE QUIERO!😍 jejeje 🤗
Special ar the people who make us feel special, just like your friend from the high school. I just felt curious to know how he responded to your I Love you 🫠.
He responded with the same feelings back, I just wasn't ready for a relationship at that time, it was nice to be able to have a relationship a little more than friendship but I feel like as a couple we wouldn't have worked, although who knows haha. Thanks for reading my post, a hug 🤗.
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It is touching the way you remember that boy as if it was yesterday, it reflects that it was a beautiful relationship, and yes, it is very important to find the balance so that each one has their space without getting lost in the relationship, thanks for sharing your experiences friend,
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Yes it was a nice moment in my life, I remember it with affection and humor haha, thanks to you for taking the time and leaving me your comment, a hug 🤗
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Hola amiga, que tema interesante. También soy de las que prefiere demostrar amor por medio de acciones que de palabras. Que bueno que guardes lindos recuerdos de tu primer amor, eso es genial. Y sin dudas, hay que saber poner los límites necesarios en las relaciones.
Gracias por la invitación 🤗
Hola amiga ☺️, jeje si lo recuerdo porque fue una gran persona aunque ya no hablemos como antes. Gracias a ti por siempre aceptar mis invitaciones jaja, un abrazo grande 💓
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Es muy lindo poder encontrar a alguien que te haga sentir especial y querida, seguramente ese "te quiero" hizo que ese vínculo fuese aún más lindo.
Gracias por la invitación, amiga @naath 💕
Si, fue bonito vivirlo y lo recuerdo con cariño 🧡, gracias por leer el post y siempre estar amiga ☺️
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Thank you so much for your support 🤗💓
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Oh yours in high school too, it's cool you still remember him. When I was in high school, I feel like saying I love is the easiest, I mean to someone aside from the family. I always had a hard time saying that to a family member. Lol. And you've language is really sweet. Being attentive is just I think, really need an effort too.
Yes, it is easier when you are young to say I love you, he just brought out the tender side in me haha. I remember him because he taught me a lot of things at that time, like how to enjoy the moment without thinking so much about things in the future. Being attentive is one of the most romantic things I see in a person and I like to be so if I know that I really feel attracted to that person, although with friendships also being attentive is something that is in me although I tend sometimes to be a little closed and I can show myself as disinterested but deep down I love too much when I get attached. Thanks for reading my post, a hug 🤗
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