¡Hola amigas de Hive!
Ya falta poquito en mí país para celebrar y homenajear a esas mujeres que día tras día está en la lucha de una mejor vida y educación para los más pequeños y no tan pequeños de la casa, esa palabra tan repetida en todos los hogares llamada Mamá ❣️.
Consejos a una madre soltera:
Durante muchos años, estoy segura que fueron y que han sido las madres que soportan abusos y malos tratos, por el "bienestar de sus hijos" o por el que dirán.
Si bien es cierto, a veces lo que creemos que está bien no es lo que le hace bien a nuestros hijos, (no soy madre, hablo como hija)...
A ti mamá soltera, te digo el día de hoy que puedes con eso y mas. No hay nada imposible y quizás no tengas experiencia en el área pero no nacimos aprendidas, no creas que no puedes y que dependes de alguien para sacar a tu bebé adelante, que tú mayor motivación sea ese pequeño ser que llegó a deslumbrar tu mundo.
No le inculques el odio hacia al padre, no le inculques mensajes de odio, tampoco tomes el papel de decirle "yo soy madre y padre" aunque hay mujeres que lo representan,desde el ángulo psicológico este tipo de conductas afecta la forma sana del niño, no está mal asistir a consulta psicológica o terapia de familia, ahí te bridnaran las herramientas necesarias para que formes una persona de bien, con metas, con valores , con sueños y más que eso, estás rompiendo ciclos para que en un futuro no se repita la historia.
Solo te puedo decir, rendirse no es una opción, cualquier obstáculo lo puedes superar si así lo decides.. cree en ti y en qué podrás ✨☄️
Mentiras que creen los hombres.
Es gracioso como en el tema de la paternidad muchos son los hombres que creen que sus hijos y sus parejas necesitan de ellos si o si, o que sin ellos no son nadie
(No incluyo a todos aquí).
Es mentira que si un niño no crece con su padre no será nadie en la vida, casi siempre la formación del niño está a cargo de la mamá o personas cercanas, si es cierto que en el área emocional puede llegar a afectar la falta de ese patrón paterno, más no es indispensable. A veces al contrario de ayudar, solo llegan a ocasionar caos en la mente de los niños y luego se van, creando inseguridades, miedo al abandono y vacíos emocionales.
- Las fotos son de mí autoría, tomadas con un teléfono Alcatel 1v 2020.
- Fueron editadas en la aplicación de Instagram.
- Traducción con Deepl.com
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✨~ Aprovecha cada oportunidad ~✨
Hello Hive friends!
There is little left in my country to celebrate and honor those women who day after day are in the fight for a better life and education for the little ones and not so little ones in the house, that word so repeated in all homes called Mom ❣️ .
Advice to a single mother:
For many years, I'm sure they were and have been mothers who endure abuse and mistreatment, for the "well-being of their children" or for what they will say.
Although it is true, sometimes what we think is right is not what is good for our children, (I am not a mother, I speak as a daughter)...
To you single mom, I tell you today that you can handle that and more. There is nothing impossible and you may not have experience in the area but we were not born learned, do not think that you cannot and that you depend on someone to get your baby forward, that your greatest motivation is that little being that came to dazzle your world.
Do not instill hatred towards the father, do not instill hateful messages, nor do you take the role of telling him "I am a mother and a father" although there are women who represent him, from a psychological angle this type of behavior affects the healthy form of the child , it is not bad to attend a psychological consultation or family therapy, there they will provide you with the necessary tools so that you form a good person, with goals, with values, with dreams and more than that, you are breaking cycles so that in the future you do not know repeat history.
I can only tell you, giving up is not an option, you can overcome any obstacle if you decide so... believe in yourself and what you can do ✨☄️
Lies that men believe.
It's funny how, on the subject of fatherhood, there are many men who believe that their children and their partners need them, yes or yes, or that without them they are nobody.
(I'm not including everyone here.)
It is a lie that if a child does not grow up with his father he will be nobody in life, almost always the formation of the child is in charge of the mother or close people, it is true that in the emotional area the lack of that paternal employer, more is not essential. Sometimes, instead of helping, they only cause chaos in the children's minds and then they leave, creating insecurities, fear of abandonment and emotional emptiness.
The photos are my own, taken with an Alcatel 1v 2020 phone.
They were edited on the Instagram app.
Translation with Deepl.com
The content is 100% original and exclusive to Hive.blog .
Es cierto muchas madres soportan tantas cosas pensando que es lo mejor para sus hijos es muy triste esas situaciones. Saludos
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Así es ! Pero ya es hora de romper estos ciclos que llevamos repitiendo durante muchas generaciones.!!
It is so important not to perpetuate hostility towards the Father, it is hard enough not to have a father figure and the opportunity to 'adopt' other role models like a loving grandfather, or cousin or uncle is still possible.
Thanks for sharing @nazath27
That's right, it is not said that it is not necessary, but if you are an immature person and are not capable of assuming your responsibility, it is better to take other examples as a model ✨
Those are good advice you have given for single parents. It is indeed important to take into consideration the psychological well-being of a child and not say something that can damage it. Thank you for these, !LADY
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I hear it's almost mother's day in some countries, it should be a daily thing for everyone so long our mothers are alive.
That's a lovely advice from you the single mothers
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