The power of a woman's love has been the subject of many poems, songs, and quotes. I'll easily concede that the love of a mother is worthy of all the praise it has received over the years, and in good enough cases the love of a female lover can be very powerful and beautiful.
But the love of a woman when you're not in a relationship with her, say you're just the guy next door or in her vicinity and she develops some love/crush for you that can be the most useless love ever in the world. Way more useless than that of a man.
How?
Because a woman can love you like that and never tell you. Either because she's shy or she thinks she's not supposed to because the society is mainly patriarchal and leaves first declaration of love to men.
Further, most times she would never even compliment you, simply telling you something nice so you feel good about yourself she'll mostly never tell you because she's shy or because she doesn't want to let the cat out of the bag that she likes you.
Next, most times, she'd never even gift you or spend money on you or anything like that. It is quite common for girls to bring pastries or something they cooked to the guys they have crushes on, but that is not most times, especially nowadays.
Nowadays women don't cook or bake a lot like in the past so if they're to give you something they mostly have to buy it which is more difficult than giving you a piece from what they made, so this is way less common these days.
Still because societies are mostly patriarchal, most girls think it's supposed to be the man spending, so they can like/love/have a crush on you without giving you anything.
And lastly, what men want from women the most - sex. A woman can love you and refuse to even indulge in such pleasure with you. For many reasons: she might be waiting for some commitment, she might want to take it slow so she doesn't look cheap/loose/like a bad girl, etc.
In these cases she could be doing it with one or more guys on the side who she doesn't even like, and giving them the best sexual performance she can muster from all her years of practicing and learning.
She'll give it all to them because she doesn't like them and doesn't want a future with them, but you that she likes? She gotta take it slow and be careful so she doesn't lose you. She gotta hide that 5 star performance from you so you don't think she's a slut and run away.
At the end of the day you're there, you're loved by a woman but you're not getting any sex, or money, or gifts. You're not even getting compliments. She's not even telling you!
This is not possible when a man loves a woman. If a man loves a woman no matter what she'll get something, even if it's just sex, at least no more lonely horny nights with no one to shower all your passion on. At the very least.
The End
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