Earlier today I was in church, gracefully dancing to the sonorous music the choir was bombarding us with. If you know me well, you’d know that even though I do not exactly dance at parties or on whatever occasion, the church is an exemption.
If the music hits right, the dance goes well. I t wasn't long before I started to feel discomfort in my feet. It was then it hit home, the heels I had on. How can something so beautiful and classy be so uncomfortable at the same time?
A part of me desperately desired to take those shoes off, but the better part of me chose not to. I am not exactly a tall person, and I am not short either. I like to think of myself as average in terms of height.
It’s common knowledge that high heels make people appear taller than they really are. I wasn’t ready to give up that extra heel-given height over mere discomfort. Only it wasn't a mere discomfort this time, I was in terrible pain.
As a man, have you ever tried putting on heels and actually walking in them? While putting on heels may not be a big deal, walking around in them is a big deal.
You see, despite how much pain I was in, I refused to take my shoes off. I mean, how could I? I had my flats in my bag, but I chose not to swap shoes.
Trust me, I paid the price in full later on. My feet and ankles ached even after I got home because of how long I kept the heels on, but I had zero regrets. I mean, how could I? If being a correct baby girl meant wearing my heels for that long, I was certainly going to do so.
The other day a friend asked if the beauty was truly worth the pain and my answer to the question was; YES, YES, YES, and YES all over again. Like, what in the ignorance was that question?
Funny thing is, heels were never my thing until I had to work in the Hospitality Industry. I worked directly with the CEO, so that meant I had to look smart every freaking time I was on the job.
[I bet you already know these are my favorite work shoes]
To him, looking smart required heels round the clock. I always had my flip-flops under my desk but I never got to actually use them until the close of work, because it was an unwritten rule in the office to never wear them.
I read an article somewhere that strongly advised that women should completely stay away from heels if possible because it would always put the body in very unnatural and unhealthy positions that could result in both short-term and long-term physical consequences.
Our ankles, spines, backs, and necks are not spared. I don't exactly remember the lines verbatim, but it did speculate that we were better off in flats and we should save heels for special occasions.
High heels are stressful, challenging, and painful. But, I am helplessly in love with them. High heels make me miserable, but I am absolutely in love with them.
Conclusion
Most people are surprised to learn that it's not only the pain and discomfort that can come from wearing heels that's the problem.
Am I the only one who is utterly in love with heels?
Do you know the signs of a foot injury caused by high heels?
If you don't, I implore you to look it up like I did. Just so you know, I’ll be rocking them till I am old and grey.
Ciao!
How do you guys dance with heels?
Well dear. It's a natural thing o. We were born with it.
Lol I see
That's one sad reality about this life o. Beautiful things are usually not easy. Just to look pretty, comes some cost.
You be correct soldier 😂
Dem no need tell you ni 😂😂
Tried heel before, and the best I could do was stans for fee minutes. I no fit imagine a whole day
No be small soldier I be o. I'd rather massage my feet at home than take of my shoes 😀 😄.
Nah, now you're making me picture you wearing heels 🤣. Next time you see a lady wearing heels, show some respect o.
Yes oo. Y'all beautiful ladies putting your best to look elegant should be respected gaan.
But please, don't picture me in heels abegg...😂what???
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
The beauty is definitely worth the pain 😄 You look freaking good in those heels.
Someone finally understands that the beauty is worth the pain, thank you! 🤣
Thank youuuuu for the compliment as well, the goal is to remain a babygirl in all circumstances😊.
Some good price to pay to be "beautiful" hehe. You look great in them though. I tossed my heels when I got out of the 9-5 race :) Only use one or two on occasions.
Heels have become my go-to every time, I doubt that'll change soon. Thank you for the compliment ☺.
And you carry it well❤
You flatter me too much, but I loveeeeeeet☺️😊☺️. I just went through your profile as well, I must confess, really love your content, especially the Leofinance articles.
I meant them❤ and oh, now you are flattering me, lol! Thank you :) Trying my best to learn the way they do it in LF.
You're doing a great job👍
Aww, thank you for your kind words. And you are too :) Cheers and stay fab!
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I have tried walking on my sister's heels but lol, it's far from comfort 😅. I was like, how do you guys find comfort in this 👀.
I can't be a fan of heels because I am a Man.
Lol, I'm not surprised you couldn't walk in them. It can get very painful, but the comfort is in knowing that you look chic.
Interesting. Heels were originally made for men. That's what I read.
Like seriously?
Yes o
Interesting. @starstrings01 send your address, I'm sending a pair to you.
Isn't that fabulous😂
Now it's the men that cannot wear them.
Lol, I can send yours too @olujay
Abegg o, I'll just go and use it to buy HIVE.
Send Jordans instead 💆🏾♂️💆🏾♂️
T for fenks
It's T for Thanks and F for Fenks though, lol. I just scrapped your shoe order too.
Ah ahn, just like that?? You dey quick vex o.
Elegant Cinderella like you...no be so.
Omoh forget o. I love heels but for now, I can not afford them. Yes, heels does come with its own complications but you can't deny the appeal it comes with and the great job it does at toning your calves. I prefer block-heels and wedges though. I don't really hold well on pinch heels.
Soon enough @deraaa, you'll have all the heels you need, believe me😉.
I used to be a block heels person, but since I tried my first pinch heels, I never went back. They look very uncomfortable, but they are actually comfortable to wear and walk with.
Hmmm. I'll try it one day then
I stan you ladies with such endurance for elegance.
I love to see ladies in heels. There's that extra detail to beauty that can bring admiration.
You can say that again.🙂
Okay, no problem.
Lol,really?🤣
aswr🤣
😎😎😎
😂
You are not... 😅
I even wore high heels in the busy streets, going from the bus station to my desired location, which was a long way. Especially on heels.
One thing I don't like are sandals though... Because those cost as much as heels and break more easily when I wear them, so I either opt for flip flops, heels or boots or sneakers.
Hahahaa, I've even been asked that question by my partner when we go out and he even warns me that I'll cry about the pain the next day and I keep saying "that's a worry for the next day 😅". At that moment at that event I don't feel the pain, it's when the shoes come off or after a night sleep that I feel I'm not as young as I used to be 😂.
Finally! Someone who gets me, lol. Wearing heels in busy streets is another doesn't seem like an easy thing to do. Are you sure you're not superwoman?😄
It's always a worry for the next day🤣 🤣
Precisely... hihihi
Hahaha, I wouldn't say that, but I took/take risks 😅. Luckily, I haven't broken my ankles till now.
I love the black pair, it fits you so well. 😍
To me heels are just like lashes, it might not be necessary but oh the difference it adds to your glam!!
You look much prettier on heals, but be careful not to fall one day from it
Aww, thank you. I'll try not to fall.