Hey hivers
Last weekend I attended a wedding, I must say this first, I am such an elegant lady, I mean, if I don’t praise myself who will?
Well apart from my partner(Lol).
So I attended this wedding and immediately I entered, I had eyed turning and rolling after me. I could honestly feel the eyes on me.
I really don’t know if it was my skin color or the brightness and colorfulness of my dress fabric or my dress style in general.
All I know was that I had eyes poking through my skin and I could feel it.
(ladies and gentlemen the dress)
I sat on my table allocated in my access card, that was when it all began. I had to stand up for at least what I calculated to be nothing less than 7 times just so people could snap my dress style. It felt to me like paparazzi something, I even began to imagine what It would feel like to be an actual celebrity, I thought to myself this must me how they feel, getting to be so attention choked.
It was also not so pleasant because I felt uncomfortable eating the things served before be because I felt people were watching me, but trust me now,
I still ate all I wanted to eat because na food carry me come the party normally o
I really thought the style to be very simple and elegant in my Own opinion, nothing too much of a big deal or deserved the attention it was getting but still it got so much attention.
A lady walked up to me and said something that struck me, she said
of all the dresses I have seen in this wedding yours is most elegant and respectable, I have just been sitting down over there looking at you, it’s not just the dress style it’s the way you have been carrying yourself so elegantly in it, I have been seeing myself in the dress just watching you wear it so perfectly
It hit me, most times the dress style isn’t just pretty and attractive only, but the carrier matters more.
They say dress the way you want to be addressed, I say dress and act the way you want to be addressed, you can wear the most expensive of clothing and still won’t receive any respect if you do not carry yourself respectably and elegantly.
So not only does the dressing matter, we should learn to first act respectably, people watch how you first place yourself before having any form of audacity to disrespect you.
I honestly loved the attention but at the end of the day I loved that I represented myself the best way possible.
Dress and act the way you want to be addressed
NB: my dress was made my the one and only Maiy, my best girl M. She always comes true for me. You can check out the post I wrote on how she made my wedding gown and all here
Thank you for reading this post
See you in my next
You're so elegant and, indeed, I agree; it's the carrier, the attitude, what really stands up. Even if you don't actually wear something new or "beautiful", your posture, your energy, could make you the queen everywhere you go 💛 beautiful addressed!!! You go, girl! I'm working on that self-confidence, powerful woman energy as well
Exactly
Her statement really opened my eyes
Sending you all the good confident woman vibes from over here
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Heehehehe my village people have enter hive
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The dress is a 10/10 and you wear it so well. I am stealing this style for myself 😄
Kimon , lol thank you
You jsit added to my morale
Can’t wait to see yours
I didn't even read the post, I had to leave a comment first because the pictures are everything. Woman, you are beautiful! Also, I think this your outfit will size me o🤔.
Size 12
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Thank you boo
It will not size me🥺
You're welcome 😊
You can slim fit it😏
Taaaaah don't give her ideas jare
Thank Heavens
It will not size you oo 🤣🤣🙌
😂😂😂
The color of the fabric plus your skin color looks so amazing and so your elegancy went obvious with your carriage.
Self confidence is bae👌
Yes sis that’s the sermon
Thank you
Without reading your post when I open it, I said wow, the tailor understood the assignment and you bodied it
Awwwn
Thank you
She sure understood the assignment
I most say I was not expecting you to come out this way, I always thought you arr kinda a slim lady only to see you are my spec 😂. Lovely dress I mean who won't stare at you such a beautiful and colorful dress on a beautiful woman. Nice content too next time invite me okay.
Thank you for reading and commenting
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Omoo, I live your ankara style. That was the first thing that caught my attention
Awwwwn
Thank you very much
A QUEEN AND MORE
Ladies and gentlemen, have u seen my friend💃💃💃💃
Community people come and see o
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This fabric is so fine and you’re looking stunning🤩
Awwwn thank you Asher
Immediately I got to this point of your post
I was smiling, like can't you see how aesthetic you are?
People are interested in what is good and beautiful and already you are, in access infact.
Your dress really looks amazing and your pretty looks garnished the whole thing again 🙌🙌🙏💜
Awwwn thanks a lot
E say na aesthetics oooo
Lol
Of cause 🥰🥰.
You're welcome dear
Wow, beautiful!
Thanks for sharing, @reineesmay.
Take care.
Thank you too
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Thank you
Omo all I can say is that you are fine jare. Your skin and the fabric is just lit. Come and dash me small fine na.
Hahaha thank you
You that is a spec
Yummy mummy
Chai..
You are truly beautiful..
People must look..
Is the skin for me?🥰🥰
The dress is beautiful as well, and it fits you perfectly..
te you.
I agree with you
How u are dressed is exactly the way you will be addressed..
I enjoyed reading your story.
Keep Glowing
I am blushing
Thank you for the kind words