HEY THERE FRIENDS
I must admit I wanted to respond to the first question when I read the questions for the week on the @ladiesofhive #74, but as soon as I read the second question I smiled because it hasn’t really been too long I wrote a letter myself and I would like to share with you all too.
Before we get into it, I would love to invite @amasophia and @otuyanancy
To the @ladiesofhive community and to participate in this contest.
Me I am specifically a lover girl, I love love and I find new ways everyday to show my partner that he is appreciated and loved,
At first my partner wasn’t such a romantic male , yes he was a typical African man who shows the bare minimum affection for his woman, to him showing me He loves me is caring for me, providing my financial and emotional needs and making sure I am
Very comfortable and safe, And above everything, these are the things I love about how he loves me and I appreciate him for that. But (Lol), me I am a hopeless romantic,
Maybe I am one for the books or because I have seen too many romantic movies but any extra way to show love and affection I am all in for it.
When we started dating, and I noticed he wasn’t the on the same PDA, romantic radar as me, I made it a point of duty to actually do the things I needed him to learn, and over time he got the drill and now I can give him a pass mark of 7/10 for being romantic. One of the things I initiated during our dating years was letter writing, I would write him a letter, paper and ink and I would then let him know that I would appreciate one in return, and before we knew it,it became a thing for us.
I would always write him a letter every 1st of January, New Year’s Day, just summarizing how the year went for the both of us and how I still very much loved him even tho he annoys me (Lol).
And he would also give me my New Years letter telling me sweet nice words too.
You might think which kind style be this?
But it helps us keep track of our love for each other and how we feel moving forward into the new year, for me it gives me an extra sense of security and just makes the feeling of being loved by someone extra sweet.
I already said am a lover girl o so don’t judge me o don’t come for me please Lol
The last time I wrote a letter to someone was January 1st 2022, to the absolute love of my life, and my Life partner till Jesus comes.
And I also received a sweet letter in return.
This little ritual of ours has a way of strengthening our bond. Most times as human beings we don’t get to say all that we want to expressively, for my husband he sometimes doesn’t seem to have the words to say it (African man in him) or he might just say
’you know I love you now babe’
But when he writes me these letters, I find that he expresses his deepest thoughts and wishes for me and our relationship and I appreciate this little ritual of ours so much.
When last did you write a letter to someone ?
Let me know in the comments below
✍♥️✍
Can you imagine how heart warming and sentimental it will be 20, 30, even 40 years from now when you two lovebirds sit down together and go through re-reading all years of old letters together?!
💌💟💌
🤞Good luck in the contest! @reineesmay
Exactly, I make sure to stash them away, it will definitely mean more to us years from now
Aww Thank you for reading
It was a pleasurable read!💕💖💕
Reinee good luck in the contest this week
Awwn thank you so much
I need it
You're cutting emotional onions 🥺
Where Una dey see this love na😔
That was in my mind each day.
Lol
You're a good definition of someone who truly knows her onions 😋😋😋
This is love in the air!! 🥰🥰 Your partner must be very happy to have you.
Awwn thank you
You're welcome
Nah who get partner dey write letter 😂🚶♀️
🤔🤔This one wey you talk no be lie sha 😅😅
Write to your mummy jare 🤣
This is a cute idea, I send messages my messages via email or WhatsApp..adding handwritten notes/letter won't be a bad idea o
Thanks for the inspiration🥰
Kisses 😘
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Wow lover girl I like that.
Thanks for the mention
Thank you too
Awe so heart warming, love love love❣️
I wish i could relate with the whole partner, romance and letter ritual🥺
I've not written a letter in over 15years.
You go girl, kudos🤗❤️
Over15 years ?
Please write yourself a latter today
Address it to yourself
❤️❤️
I can't remember the last time I wrote a letter to someone but it's good to know you're representing us well. Your love story is quite intriguing
Thank you
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Ohhh thank you
Oh how heartwarming!
You started a tradition with your loved one that is a true treasure
and which you both will look forward to (and back).
What a precious was to express your deepest thoughts and wishes for each other!
Thanks for sharing @reineesmay!
Good luck with the contest.
Yes it is
Awwn thank you so much for reading
I've never written a letter to someone, except you count those letters we wrote in English language as a subject in high school. But I love this and I get to walk through your experience with you. Thanks for sharing
Awww am glad you love it
Thank you for reading
You're welcome
I must say,you ave got a Very Attractive love life and may it continue to remain so,amen. As for us wey. Still dey chop breakfast😂 we will save this inspiration for when we meet LOML. Thank you for sharing nd the mention too.
Hahaahaahahahahah every breakfast in your life shall be tuned To everlasting dinner date
Amen
I love the tactics you adopt in strengthening your love life with your hubby for life.
You are such a romantic lover you know 🤩🤩
Yes o I am
If you can’t beat them you join them
My husband has learnt to join me hehehehehehe
Hahahaha
Datz a great job 💪
We love to be pampered and for our partners to have some romantic detail from time to time.
Much success and a hug @reineesmay
Nos encanta que nos mimen y que nuestras parejas tengan algún detalle romántico de vez en cuando. Muchísimo éxito y un abrazo.
Yes we do love that
Hugs to you too
Thank you so much
I have seen someone that loves love more than me
Hehehee it’s a lie o
You are our road model o
Oh that is so sweet! More bliss and blessings to you both🥂
Awwn thank you very much for the kind words
Hmm, I want this love too oo, but I am not the type to start writing love letter to a guy. Does that mean I am not romantic? 😆 I love your pattern writing letter to start a new year.
Not just any guy MakeSure he is your guy Then it will make Sense
Thank you 😊
Thank you 😎
Normally my hand writing is not very good.
With my difficulty in hand writing it would be to my special friends. It'd take me hours to compose then write very slowly in my best calligraphy with a black fine tip Japanese Baoke pen.
Thanks for sharing @reineesmay ❤️
Awww
Thank you for reading
That’s quite an amazing tradition you share with your husband. I don’t remember the last time I wrote a letter to anyone, must be many many lives ago. Now I feel inspired to leave some some kind words on paper.
Thank you for sharing this with us and good luck in the contest.
Thank you a lot
It’s how you refer to him as “African man” haha 😂
This marriage thing is beautiful o 😍
Heheheehhe the you can’t take the African man away from
An African man
The traits are always there
Lol
At all 😂
I used to think writing a letter is not for me. It is hard, I don't know how to show my feelings and my love in words. But thanks to our ladies posts, I learn that I don't need to stress about things, just write, no need to worry if it is too short, it sounds not sweet. I am planning to do love letters with my partners soon. Thank you for sharing and good luck with the contest
Awwwn so sweet
Thank you
Too beautiful! I love how so many of us ladies have similar stories to tell. I don't care how long you've been together or how old you get, these little acts of love are so important. We all need a little romancing sometimes!
Exactly ..well said
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