Hello Ladies of Hive community, I'm thanhnga and I'm from Hanoi city, Vietnam.
This is my first post on the platform, nice to meet you guys!! To be honest I'm a new member so I don't know much about Hive yet, but I'm trying to learn about the communities here. Thank you for organizing this contest so that all the amazing women in this world can participate and tell their stories.
In this post I will answer the question " What are your goals that you want to achieve in 2022? "
I am a 22 year old girl and I have a lot of dreams and goals to achieve in life. I was born in a rural area located on the outskirts of Hanoi city, which is Soc Son district. Soc Son land is mainly mountains and forests, it was very poor land until the government built Noi Bai airport - the only international airport in Hanoi city (north of Vietnam). My parents are farmers so my family has rice fields and jasmine gardens. My family has 3 sisters and a youngest brother, I am the second daughter in the family. My sister is 32 years old this year and she is married and has beautiful children. My parents are old but they really work hard because my little brother is still young, only 5 years old. 4 years ago I had to think a lot between the options 'go to college or go to work'. All my close friends have chosen to go to university because they told me they need degrees and qualifications to get good jobs. I went to university and passed many universities but in the end I chose to work to earn money to support my parents. If I go to college, my family won't be able to pay for that university , it's too expensive. Furthermore, my younger brother and sister are still young, how can my parents take care of them all? The average cost for 4 years of university in Vietnam is about 300,000,000 VND (about 13,100 USD) while the income of farmers is only 200-300 dollars/month. And I also know that if I go to university, after I graduate I will have to find a good job with a high salary, otherwise my family will be very disappointed because of me. Currently there are many students who have attended university but are still unemployed, I am really worried about that and the costs if I go to university (tuition, food, electricity, accommodation, .. ) Right after finishing high school, I went to work at Noi Bai airport as a salesman. That job doesn't earn much, but the place of work is close to my house, so I can both earn money and be with my family more.
I had a beautiful love for 4 years, but until now it has broken because I can't get married now. My parents already knew him and they also wanted me to get married but I decided to end it all. He couldn't wait until I turned 25, he was always forced by his family to get married this year or 2022, and that's why we broke up. Between family - blood relations and lover - love I can only choose one. I really want to earn money and save some money to help my parents, I really love them because their life is so hard.
My young brother
If I choose love, I will be selfish, how can I leave my dear family? I only want the best for my little brother and my parents. There are still a lot of outdated notions and backward old people in my hometown. If a girl gets married, she will have to spend all her time and money taking care of her husband's family. Many old people here think that: "Daughters are not their biological children, daughters are children of other families". Because girls after getting married will have less time to visit their birth parents and much worse than that. That's why young girls in Vietnam don't want to get married because in addition to the pressure of making money, they also face a lot of pressure from her husband's family and strict old-fashioned rules. And the concept of "respect men and despise women" is also the reason why my parents are old but still trying to have a son. Because only boys can take care of their parents until their parents get old and die, and girls can't do that - opinion of the majority of the elderly in North Vietnam.
2020 and 2021 are hard years for me because Covid-19 has closed the international airport. I had to go to other jobs and stopped work at Noi Bai airport, now I'm working at a bakery, 35km away from my house and I have to get up early at 5am every day and ride a motorbike to the bakery.
Since I spend most of my time for working and earning money, I don't travel to other lands with my friends, maybe that's why my blog is less prominent than other friends.😞
In 2022 my goals are:
- Buy a new motorbike
- Save money to fix my parents' house, the house I live in is really old and in many places is gnawed by rats
- Saved some money to take my parents and younger bro and sis on a trip. My parents never enjoyed a trip to another land, their whole life worked hard and sacrificed for us.
- I have a lot of other dreams in life like opening my own bakery, traveling with my friends, etc. but I will try to fulfill it later.
I hope 2022 will be a lucky year for me and my family. I wish my family good health and always smiling. I also hope that I can accomplish all of the above goals.😎
I would like to invite my two friends @anfood and @a-alice to participate in this contest, they are young girls but very good in many fields. 😉And thank you sis @trangbaby, @ngoan8x for bringing me to this contest, thank you very much.😻
Thank you for reading my post, I will be very happy if you comment below my post. We will make friends and communicate with each other.
By @thanhnga99
Beautiful family em ❤Em là 1 cô con gái tuyệt vời và chăm chỉ, cố gắng tất cả vì gia đình. Thật ngưỡng mộ em. Chúc em đạt được những dự định của mình trong 2022, mọi cố gắng sẽ được đền đáp xứng đáng. Chúc em và gia đình năm mới sức khỏe và thịnh vượng ❤
Thanks for the entry em 😍
e cám ơn c Trang rất nhiều vì đã nâng đỡ e ở hive ạ, đây là cộng đồng mới đối với e và may có chị giúp đỡ nhiều ạ, e rất biết ơn ạ. E phải hâm mộ chị nhiều ấy, tuổi trẻ của chị đi du lịch khắp nơi và trải nghiệm mọi thứ trên đời, càng ở Hive lâu càng cảm thấy có nhiều người giỏi, nhiều người làm e khâm phục và ngưỡng mộ quá.
Lâu lâu em mới có dịp chia sẻ ra những điều như vậy cám ơn chị 😍 và các admin của Ladies of hive nhiều ạ😍
Chúc em đạt được các dự định trong năm 2022 và gia đình nhiều sức khỏe 🥰. Hiện tại do đang ảnh hưởng dịch nên công việc của mình hơi bị thay đổi chút, sau chắn chắn đều sẽ suôn sẻ nè.
giờ không biết bao giờ dịch mới hết chị nhỉ 😞 e nghi mấy năm ấy ạ, mà e làm ngành dịch vụ thì cứ bị đóng cửa mãi thôi. Trong HCM giờ tình hình sao rồi ạ?
Trong này giờ cũng 1 tuần đi làm vài ngày còn lại WFH á em, chắc cũng tùy chỗ, còn du lịch này kia chắc cũng đang phục hồi từ từ á. 😘Sớm ổn lại thôi nè, chứ chị thấy như là điều chỉnh để thích nghi luôn
A girl who wakes up at 5 AM , gets on a motorbike to earn money in order to support the family and who said no to marriage and love. Now you are a tough cookie haha pun intended as I truly wish you to succeed and have your own bakery! You would provide so much for your family I am sure. Stay confident and strong, by the looks of it I am sure that you will succeed! Happy holidays🤗
Thank you, life is always hard and we have to learn how to get through it. Wishing you a happy and healthy new year😁
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có 1 điểm chúng là chúng ta đều là những người ít ra ngoài chơi :))
vậy ạ, e thì là do một là bận hai là nghèo không có tiền đi chơi anh ạ 😁
Hola, que interesante leer toda tu publicación y conocer tu cultura. Es realmente duro lo que viven muchas mujeres. Eres fuerte y sabia, espero y deseo que logres muchas de tus metas. Un gran abrazo virtual para ti. 😊
😁thank you, wish you all the best
Cố gắng lên nhé bạn mình, chúc m năm 2022 đạt được kết quả như mong muốn nhé
cám ơn m nha, chúc m luôn xinh đẹp khỏe mạnh kiếm nhiều xiền hơn năm cũ nhé
I had a beautiful family. I wish you will get your goal.
cám ơn c nha, chúc c cũng đạt được nhiều mục tiêu trong cuộc sống 😁
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Thanks for your sharing.
I wish the concept of "respect men and despise women that you mentioned will be disappeared
Chúc em thực hiện được mục tiêu của mình và tìm được một nửa kia 😃
vâng ạ cũng mong nhữung điều đó được loại bỏ nhưng ở vùng quê tư tưởng vậy nhiều lắm a ạ
chúc a năm mới nhiều niềm vui, hạnh phúc và sức khỏe ạ 😁
Ui em bé còn nhỏ xíu luôn, yêu quá! Cô gái mạnh mẽ lắm. E đúng là tuýp phụ nữ VN luôn nghĩ cho gia đình, vì gia đình. Chúc em sẽ đạt được mọi điều mong ước trong năm 2022 nhé!
dạ em cám ơn chị ạ, giờ em mới onl nên rep chậm quá, chúc chị năm mới tràn ngập niềm vui, hạnh phúc và sức khỏe ạ 😁
Chúc em và gia đình năm mới sức khỏe và sẽ đạt được những kế hoạch trong năm tới nhé. Nhìn cả gia đình đẹp thiệt chớ.
E cám ơn a nhiều ạ, chúc anh năm mới đạt được nhiều thành công và luôn luôn khỏe mạnh ạ 😁
Bé Nga dễ thương quá, ngường mộ sự chăm chỉ của em. cuối năm chúc gia đình em tất cả nhé
vâng ạ, nhà được em bé nhà em đẹp nhất nhà. E cũng chúc chị và gia đình thật nhiều sức khỏe ạ 😁
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