Ladies of Hive Question #56
If you are in a bad mood, do you prefer to be left alone
or have someone to cheer you up?
Ever have one of those days where you just feel so down and out? We all have days that are just not that great. Sometimes, it’s because of events that have happened during the day or week. Other times, it just happens for no reason at all. The question is, what do you do when you are in a bad mood?
Most people feel better when others are there to cheer them up. However, some people in a bad mood prefer to be left alone. There is an underlying idea that the individual in a bad mood may not want to fully acknowledge their emotional state.
In a perfect world, I enjoy being around people and inspiring them when I'm in a good mood. It's important to me to have that connection with family and friends, even when my demeanor is not the most pleasant. But the reality is not always the same. Sometimes I want to curl up on the couch and watch comedy or entertainment on Youtube and laugh out loud.
I do understand that being around people will make me feel better when I'm not feeling well. However, spending a lot of my time in solitude doesn't mean isolating myself, but sometimes when I am in a bad mood, it is best that I am by myself for a while. As I can't be sociable and it is uncomfortable for others to be around me.
Many of us have been taught that we need to keep positive attitudes and be happy all of the time. It can be difficult to do this, but it's important not to share those feelings with others because I don't want them to be on the receiving end of my negativity.
My friends keep on asking me how I have the energy to be so happy and active all of the time. However, I have noticed that my mood changes sometimes, which causes me to have days where I am more anxious and irritable than on other days. I want to make sure that my negativity doesn't affect anybody else's day, so I'm rather being alone and trying to find activities that will make me happy on these tough days.
Well, there are some of the many activities that can make anyone feel better on a bad day. For me, I have a few different things that I will do to cheer myself up. One of my favorite things is going to the beach/ pool for swimming on a nice day. I know that seems like a pretty easy task but it's one of the best feelings ever. I've found that being submerged in water elevates my mood and calms my nerves. Swimming has been a productive way to decompress and turn down the volume on the stressors of life. I'm just underwater with only myself and my thoughts.
Additionally, I have always been a fan of getting outside and enjoying nature. I believe that it is a quick way to lift myself up from whatever funk I am in. Sitting in the sun, taking walks in the forest, and even just being outside gives me a sense of well-being that no other activity can provide. The world is a beautiful place, from the vast oceans to the towering mountains. One way I find comfort in this frenetic world is by getting outside and experiencing nature for myself.
Research has shown that spending just 30 minutes in a natural environment each day can lead to reduced levels of cortisol, lowered heart rate, and lower levels of anxiety. Not only does it help us relax, but it also aids in our creativity, focus, and concentration. Mother Nature provides the perfect setting for rest and rejuvenation.
Some people prefer to be left alone when they are feeling down and others like to have someone on their side for comfort. This is the difference between introverts and extroverts. No matter what happens, no matter how bad it is, there are always ways to keep positive. Some people might find comfort in food, doing yoga, enjoying nature, or others prefer having beloved ones around. Regardless of the method, the key message is to not let ourselves lose hope.
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Hahaha đúng y luôn, chỉ có em tui mới chịu khó chụp cho bà chị già mấy bức sống ảo thế này 🤩
As you say @trangbaby everyone has there own ways to relieve there bad days and my is going for a jog on the beach then watching a nice sunset melting my bad vibes away 🌞😊
The same John :) The smell of salt in the air, the sound of waves crashing onshore, or the sound of wind blowing through palm trees that make me feel alive ☀️🏖️
Did anyone tell you that you would make a good Poet 😁 You do have a beautiful way with words that alone will take my bad day away 😊
Hhahaha thank you for your kind words John :)
It really depends on my mood 😂😅 and I'm not that a romantic girl anymore 😆
Your welcome @trangbaby WHAT...Don't believe that a young beautiful girl like you should be romantically on top of the world pushing them men away...lol 😂
I tried and it didn't work 😅😂
The secret is don't try let them come to you when the time is right it will just happen when least expected without trying. 😊 Have a great day my friend Trang 😊
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You're so lucky to have nature at your convenience. I feel the same way, always more relaxed and calmer when I'm in nature 🤗
Thank you, girl. This is why I am not interested in moving to other cities, even though they offer more career opportunities. We have something in common :)
Any time I’m feeling down like that, I find a way to do some chorse I have been pending then spend hours on it.
I sometimes do the same as focusing on accomplishing something can help one overcome sadness or boredom with life. 😊
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It’s my pleasure 😇
This depends on the situation. Sometimes both can work.
I totally agree :) It is possible to combine both methods :)
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A bunch of beautiful amazing nature pictures 😻
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going to the beach/ pool for swimming <./em>
Another waterbaby! I like swimming, in fact I swim every time I have the time!
Good luck with the contest. Thanks for sharing, @trangbaby.
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Me either. My favorite thing to do when the weather is nice is to go swimming every day :)
Thank you dear @silversaver888 :) Your topics are so interesting :)
I do lap swims on Tuesdays and Thursdays, and I am in the pool as often as I could, haha🤣😄.
It is a stress reliever!
Oh wow nice song :) Thanks for sharing it, very much appreciated it 💖
Solitude is also a great trait to develop. Eventually, we will become responsible for ourselves, our friends won't be as available as they are now, they will have their own families and own problems to tackle;this is why it's important to become independent. Great read!
I can't agree with you anymore. The people I know now are busy with their own things and with their families. So I don't want to be waiting for someone to make me happy. Yes, we are primarily responsible for making ourselves happy 😉
I appreciate you taking the time to read this and your kind words. :)
There are millions of ways to cheer ourselves up, but without hope it's like without light, we hardly find the way out of the dark. Beautiful sharing, dear!
Thank you chị iu 😍 for your kind words. You've inspired me to write this 💖
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Your photos talks itself. That's why there is a saying, nature is a healer.
Im an introvert and usually isolate myself more during down time. But in that time I become more active to feel better.
Although I am both an introvert and an extrovert, as I grow older the more solitude I crave 🙂Hey @rem-steem it's a pleasure to meet you and thank you for coming by.
I love this post. Just reminded myself that there is so much I can explore in the aim of re-flling my tank. Much appreciated
Glad you enjoyed it, and thanks for taking the time to read it. Watsi 💖
Yep, we certainly do have a lot to do and explore around
again and again, I really enjoyed every detail of your story. and I totally agree with your way of easing the bad mood. Nature never fails. that's the point. tell us more about your story, @trangbaby 🥰
Aww what a sweet !!
Nature never fails 💖💖💖Whether it is a ray of light peeking through the clouds, an autumn leaf falling to the ground, or a bird flying overhead, nature often provides consolation when we need it most. It helps us realize that even though life may be difficult and depressing right now there's always something to smile about.
I've found the ladiesofhive community is a great place to share more about myself.
Thank you very much @titisnariyah for the visit and your beautiful words. Wish you a wonderful weekend and see you around :)
A nice way to get all that stress out a good nature walk always works for me 😊
From witnessing spectacular sunrises to sitting in the shade of a tree after a long day, or walking around; there are countless ways in which nature can make us happy.😉
You can never go wrong with nature it is there to please us in every way possible and you seemed to have taken all advantage of it. Have a great weekend @trangbaby 😊
Beautiful pictures!
🙌🏻 And you are right: nature has a very positive effect on our mental spirit and our health. 🌿🌱
Wíh you a wonderful weekendHey @borsengelaber, thank you for stopping by and your kind words. Nature has always been a blessing for humans. 😉
Bài viết hay quá Trang à. Đôi khi tâm trạng không tốt chúng ta thích ở một mình vì không muốn ảnh hưởng đến những người xung quanh. Thanks for your invitation baby
Hihii thank you Loan nhé :) Đôi khi có người xung quanh cũng tốt nhưng đôi khi có người xung quanh dễ làm minh more emotional hơn
Wow, you have some beautiful photos here! Wish I had somewhere that beautiful that I could go hang out and throw off a bad mood. I agree, nature is the best medicine, and you're never in danger of offending anyone if you're alone.
While I live in a big city in Viet Nam, the area has a lot of natural beauty surrounding it :)Greetings @blueeyes8960. Your blue eyes make me envious and I love anything blue. I'm happy to have met you and really appreciate your kind words. 😉
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Really love your energy em 💛 I believe everyone wants to be close to you and get good vibes ^^ I like spending time at the beach/ pool as well 💙
Thank you sis. You have a such a great energy too and I love being around you :)
Yeah, I find myself mostly the same when I get down, sitting alone in nature helps me to rearrange my thoughts perfectly. I can feel the calmness and inside energy in your post. There are some days we need to be empty to make room for a recharge. Love you @trangbaby
Getting older makes us calmer 😆
Thank you cô giáo for stopping by and your kind words, much appreciated it :)
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I always meet your active person and your positive energy brings a lot of good influence to me as well. I guess the reason is that you keep yourself busy in nature so often :)
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Thank you cưng nhé :) It makes me happy to know that I have influenced you positively
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Thank you :)
Oh yeah, I'm looking forward to your upcoming posts :)Thank you dear @charrisenyey, yep I'm a big fan of getting outside and doing hiking like yours :) When I feel stressed out and start to get cabin fever, I just jump outside!