Hello dear community of women 😊✨, I hope you are all doing great, vibrating nice and super high. On this lovely occasion I want to share with you my entry to contest #206, I hope you like it ☺️
Hola querida comunidad de mujeres 😊✨, espero todas estén excelente vibrando bonito y super alto. En esta linda ocasión quiero compartirles mi entrada al concurso N°206, espero les guste ☺️
Of the three questions in the contest, I chose the second one: Can you share a time when you turned a difficult situation into a valuable life lesson? This question really caught my attention and encouraged me to talk about this topic.
De las tres preguntas del concurso, elegí la segunda : ¿Puedes compartir una ocasión en la que convertiste una situación difícil en una valiosa lección de vida ?, me llamó mucho la atención esta pregunta y me anime a hablar de este tema.
Since I was little I have had many problems with my father, we were never close and when I entered adolescence the problems grew and grew until they became unsustainable, causing any bond with my father to end.
Desde pequeña he tenido muchas problemáticas con mi padre, jamás fuimos cercanos y cuando pise la adolescencia la problemática creció y creció hasta volverse insostenible, haciendo que cualquier lazo con mi padre se acabara.
My father was always physically and verbally aggressive towards me, causing me many self-esteem and confidence issues, I was incapable of many things including forming friendships and communicating with other people. The most difficult situation I faced was when I was 16, my parents were in the process of divorce and things were complicated, I reached a point where I could not stand my dad's treatment any longer and we had a very ugly argument, he said a lot of negative things to me and I did not stay quiet, it was the first time I was able to respond to him, of course nothing ended well, my father got very angry with me and never spoke to me again, he disinherited me, disappearing from my life and that of my family.
Mi padre siempre fue agresivo físicamente y verbalmente conmigo, desatando en mi muchos problemas de autoestima y confianza, era incapaz de muchas cosas entre estas de formar lazos de amistad y comunicación con otras personas. La situación mas difícil que enfrenté fue cuando tenía 16 años, mis padres estaban en proceso de divorcio y las cosas estaban complicadas, llegué a un punto donde no pude soportar más los tratos de mi papá y discutimos muy feo, el me dijo muchas cosas negativas y yo no me quedé callada fue la primera vez que pude responderle, por supuesto nada acabó bien, mi padre se enojo mucho conmigo y no volvió a hablarme, me desheredo, desapareciendo de mi vida y la de mi familia.
Although the situation of my parents' divorce was not easy at all, adding to my bad father-daughter relationship, those small events adding to those of the past, gave me a great life lesson that I carry with me every day and that is:
Si bien, la situación del divorcio de mis padres no fue nada fácil, sumándole mi mala relación padre e hija, ese pequeño acontecimientos sumándole los del pasado, me otorgaron una gran lección de vida que llevo presente todos los días y esa es :
Not to bear mistreatment from anyone, no matter who it is, no one deserves to be treated badly, that everything happens for a reason and most importantly, no one has the right to lower your self-esteem. I can say with certainty that my father is the man who has done the most harm to me in my 17 years of existence, but every difficult situation has its good side and the good side of this situation was that thanks to all that, I learned how strong I am, I learned what I am made of, not to live off what others think of me, no matter if they are my own family. I learned to heal wounds and live in peace, situations like this are difficult to face and when they happen to us it is because we must learn painful lessons that later will give us our reward, mine was to let go of all the negative weight that I carried since I was a child, I stopped living in the shadow of my father and began to be myself, to discover myself day by day, however I regret that I had to learn all this in a bad way, but things happen for a reason, I do not hate my father, on the contrary I wish him all the good in the world.
No soportar malos tratos de nadie, no importa quien sea, nadie merece ser tratado de mala manera, que todo pasa por una razón y lo más importante, nadie tiene derecho a bajar tu autoestima. Puedo decir con certeza que mi padre es el hombre que mas daño me ha hecho en mis 17 años de existencia, pero cada situación difícil tiene su lado bueno y el lado bueno de esta situación fue que gracias a todo eso, yo aprendí lo fuerte que soy, aprendí de que estoy hecha, de no vivir de lo que otros piensan de mi, no importa si son mi propia familia. Aprendí a sanar las heridas y vivir en paz, situaciones así son difíciles de enfrentar y cuando nos pasan es porque debemos aprender dolorosas lección que más adelante nos darán nuestra recompensa, la mia fue soltar todo el peso negativo que llevaba desde niña, deje de vivir en la sombra de mi padre y empecé a ser yo, a descubrirme dia a día, sin embargo lamento que tuve que aprender todo esto de mala manera, pero por algo pasan las cosas, no odio a mi padre, al contrario le deseo todo lo bueno del mundo.
This has been the most difficult situation that left me with a valuable life lesson forever, thanks to that I was able to find my way and live fully, this is my story and every time I share it it is not so that others feel sorry for me, but because just like me, there are other teenagers going through the same or even worse, having the courage to face situations like this is not easy to do but it is worth facing them and that is why I like to tell my story, so that others have the courage and know that they are not alone in this 🩷✨💪🏻
Está ha Sido la situación más difícil que me dejó una lección valiosa de vida para siempre, gracias a eso pude encontrar mi camino y vivir plenamente, está es mi historia y cada vez que la comparto no es para que otros sientan pena de mi, sino porque así como yo, hay otras adolecentes pasando por lo mismo u hasta peor, tener el valor de enfrentar situaciones asi no es facil de hacer pero vale la pena enfrentarlas y es por ese motivo que me gusta contar mi historia, para que otras tengan el valor y sepan que no estan solas en eso 🩷✨💪🏻
Thank you very much for reading my post and getting this far. I hope you liked it 😊 Don't forget to comment and follow me. See you next time ✨☺️
Muchas gracias por leer mi post y haber llegado hasta aquí espero les halla gustado 😊 no olviden comentar y seguirme Hasta la próxima ✨☺️
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I’m so sorry about that. I’m just glad that you’ve healed and you’re much more stronger then before. It’s really sad that you learned that lesson through that problem but the most important thing is that you still learned it.
Este tipo de situaciones son tristes y difíciles, sin embargo la luz siempre prevalece en la oscuridad, muchas gracias por comentar 😊
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You had a difficult childhood and you had to go through so much in life at a very young age. Such a difficult childhood often makes us strong and I am glad today you decided to talk about it. It proves that you have a very strong personality and you learned so much through the difficulties. Be proud of yourself and who you are today. I wish you all the best in life...
Thanks a lot for the wonderful post and good luck...
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Que difícil situación la que viviste, eso deja marca en la vida de una dama. Al final te dejo un gran aprendizaje sin duda alguna. Un abrazo. @uri07
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