2025, is just in few days. I'm so much grateful particular for growth this year. In this particular year, I have gained academical heights, I have made lots of money this year just at the comfort of my home, I have not made really made friends this year, and a lot has really happened this year.
But as the year is gradually winding up, I have noticed that with all these achievements I have made, the money I have made, I haven't been able to take good care of myself. These money has always been spent on bills upon bills. Normally as a girl self care is priority, and it includes: wardrobe changes,eating healthy, looking good, keeping fit, smelling nice, skin and hair care,etc.
This hasn't particularly been my story for the year, my hair hasn't been treated for quite a long time
just the normal washing and Braiding every month. My clothes are not fitting anymore and I haven't changed my wardrobe since the Begining of the Year. It got worst to a certain point where I didn't have a purse nor bag as well as a good shoe to wear for and outing or event.
My life has so much revolves round school and academic activities since inception last year. I wear uniform everyday of my life, so the more reason why I am deficient of clothings. It actually dawned on me a couple of times that I needed to step out of school that I had no good outfits. Most times I get do discouraged to step out because of insufficient outfits.
So as at last two months , I started by Changing my foot wears and buying new ones. I have been so particular about my looks as well, so I have started giving myself some little skin care routine.
Talkless of food, I have been eating well of recent, looking healthy and attractive and then part of my Bills these year has been on My health because my health as really been troubling. I had a bucket list at the Beginning of this year and basically I have ticked all of them asides one which was con
So 2025 is in few days and it's a begining of new dawn for everyone. My utmost Priority for the New year is Gonna be 3 simple things
My Relationship with God:
Now this is not a resolution and it might some how look like it should be a personal thing but then, I feel its a priority for me in the coming Year. I really want the Bond to grow stronger and the Intimacy more intense. Frankly speaking I haven't really been committed this year. It has been the Laziest year of my life as well andu spiritual Life has been affected as well. But then In the coming Year, I really desire rekindling It.
My Self care:
This Shall be emphasized in the year 2025. I'm NGL, I crave doing a lot of things for myself as a girl this year. I crave to treat myself good this year. Buy lots of things for myself this year. Invest in my looks, my health, my academic, my appearances etc. I crave spending intimate and quality time with myself. Not Like Hallucination or Soliloquizing but just doing most things with Myself, resting, meditating and doing all the things I crave doing.
Part of my self care might also involve investing in good skill that might later be of importance for me.
This Year is solely for MYSELF. I have starved this baby girl of so much and she has really tried, so for this girl I need to give it a good treat.
Self-care doesn't really need to be Extravagant and I don't really need to go bankrupt. But with the little I have, I just want to make myself happy and beautiful. Less is more Right, at least for the level and stage I am , there are some basics I could afford for myself.
Prioritizing MYSELF over other things doesn't mean I would be selfish and not taking of other around me. Ofcourse Ill continue to spread love around but I would also love to spread the Love to Myself as well
I need to care and nurture myself as well.
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You long to have a better relationship with God that is the most important thing, I believe that for those of us who believe in him that should be our priority.
Greetings and may your most desired desires be fulfilled.😊
Thanks @carisma77 🤗
Money come and go but once health is destroyed; humans collapse easily. I am glad you realized your worth and importance and decided to focus on yourself and your health. Connection with God is important, it brings peace if you have faith...
I'm glad you found this a worthy Read.☺️
You reached many goals this year I'm jealous 😁 by the way it's important prioritizing ourselves always but it's not always easy
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