#160 LOH, Death is sure, message for someone who passed away

in Ladies of Hivelast year (edited)

Another week again dear people of hive.It's a great day to start over again through writing our post here in @ladiesofhive community.This weeks questions is quiet thrilling and exciting, but realistic because everyone will experience this kind of thing anytime.

These are my answers to the following questions;

(This is a flower from my mom)

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For some reason if in case when already knew that our life is imminent, like the exact time or day that it will happen.To be realistic, I will fight for it, I'm gonna avoid some situation of place in which this scenario will occur.So that,I can be with my family for a long period of time.

Just like what happen to my godmother who died last august this year.Het children says, if they were informed that their mom will die on that day when she attend the mayor's birthday party, they will probably not allowed her to go.

But, just as we already been known, death is like a thief who will come without any further noticed.Will it be in the night or day, who will know about it, no one right?So, if "death is sure",what can we do it to prepare for it.By living our life each day,like it is our last,cherished the moment with family and friends ,and not to waste our days with worries and resentment, or even bitterness.

Most of all, to be prepared spiritually, regardless of religion of belief that we have, we should keep it strengthened.As we all know, that things on earth are just passing by, but spiritual matters are eternal like faith, hope and love.Life is indeed short, and death awaits all of us, as for me, I put my trust in God, who created me.

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My grandmother passed away last 2021, she died during pandemic times.Our family somehow have regrets on why she didn't brought her to the hospital to be cured because they were afraid what if she got positive, and they will no longer see her.This letter is for my Lola.

Dear Lola,

I miss you.Even if we're not close when you were here on earth but, I really miss your presence during afternoon that you will sleep on the hammock beside our kitchen.When I saw a bread and royal orange which is your favorite, I always remember the days that you often asked for it everytime you finished eating.

La, sorry if we did not do our best for you, that we lack of time to take care of, and you suffered a lot longing for your children and they didn't come to see you in bed. I know that you miss them a lot, and you want them to being beside you during your last breath, but they couldn't do it.Hoping that your okay now, and no more tears and pain.

Your house was already abandoned, and no one wants to live there, but they kept your things safely.

Thank you La, for the good and bad days that happened to us.

Have a great time.

That's all, God bless.

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Thank you for sharing. Death is indeed a certainty, and we always tend to think we have tomorrow, but we just don't know! Living today as if it's all you have, is definitely a good way to live. Thanks for sharing and have a lovely day!

Yes it's better to live each day to the fullest.

Thank you for having you in my post.

You are very welcome!

We don't when death is coming, so your Godmother or anyone in your family didn't it will happen. No one should be blamed. It wasn't like she was sick with only a few months/days left but no one did things to prolong her life. Then I guess there should be someone to blame. Anyway, if death was destined to come, nothing could stop it.

I feel emotional for your late Lola. During the pandemic, many died because of lack of treatment as they feared going to the hospital. I guess her life could have been saved if she was sent earlier to the hospital. For sure, she is at peace now.

Thanks for joining !LADY

So sorry for your loss...

Dear @wenggo,

Your letter to your Lola is incredibly heartfelt and touching. It's clear that you really miss her.

The regrets about not being able to do more for her during her final days may hits hard.

I know that all the memories you shared and the love you have for Lola shine through your words in this letter.

Take comfort in knowing that your letter expresses your love and serves as a tribute to her. 🙏

When death has to come it finds its way. No matter how much you play to avoid the circumstances, death reaches. It is inevitable to come. The important thing is to how we live our lives and what legacy we leave behind.

I wish your Lola be in peace in the world hereafter


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Hmmm! Death indeed is certain! Everyone will get a taste but may we not die untimely 🙏

Hmmm,death is indeed inevitable,and we can't question God.
So sorry for your loss.

Yes we can't , that's the hard truth that we need to embrace.

Yeah you are right 👍