Today, I want to participate in one of the proposed topics and which deals with issues as important as current and as everyday as necessary.
From the above, here I leave my publication that has to do with:
How do you feel when you are alone responding to your thoughts? Possibly, you shared things in the past with your mother, grandmother or sister - someone who is now no longer with you - do you turn to them asking them what they would say if they were with you today? Please share those inner thoughts and fears you carry in your heart.
Apparently, this topic is made for me because since more than a year ago my life took a 360 degree turn and I have done things I never thought and I have faced situations that I have been able to face because of the advice of the person who loved me the most in life and who is not by my side today.
When I am alone I respond to my thoughts the way my mother taught me. I always apply the knowledge and teachings that she instilled in me during her lifetime.
So that whoever reads this has an idea, I will tell you that in 2023 I emigrated from my country to Uruguay and now I am passing through another country, with the objective of settling permanently in another country.
However, I have gone through difficulties, some mistreatment, many needs that more than economic are emotional. I have also felt like giving up and going back, but, when I think of the needs and shortages and that I will not be able to help my family, I continue towards my goal.
In those moments of weakness I talk to my mother and she always tells me to apply the family formula:
- Don't give up no matter how strong the setbacks are.
- Mental strength because everything is there
- Love, faith and hope
- Fight for our dreams
In those moments of weakness she always advises me and gives me the example of the work she had to go through to raise her six children, the times she had to stop feeding herself well to give the best to us and how, despite all that, her children grew and developed very well.
But, despite it all I have fears that get in the way of my goals and objectives. For example:
- I am afraid of my family homesickness and that it will cause me to fail to meet my goal of helping my family financially.
- I am afraid of not being able to measure up to the task I have undertaken.
- I am afraid of the mistreatment that I may suffer because I live as an immigrant in another country.
- I have doubts about my ability as a woman to face this great challenge in a foreign country.
Despite my fears, my mother is always with me. Her strength, courage and ability to overcome difficulties are the pillars that keep me going in this endeavor to find the best possible future for me and my family.
Important: The images are my own, taken with my Samsung Galaxy phone.
I have used the translator DeepL Translate.
ESPAÑOL
Hola a las mujeres guerreras que siguen abriéndose paso y empoderándose de sus vidas.
Hoy, quiero participar en uno de los temas propuestos y en el que se tratan temas tan importantes como actuales y tan cotidianos como necesarios.
A partir de lo anterior, aquí dejo mi publicación que tiene que ver con:
¿Cómo te sientes cuando estás solo respondiendo a tus pensamientos? Posiblemente, compartiste cosas en el pasado con tu madre, abuela o hermana - alguien que ahora ya no está contigo - ¿te diriges a ellas preguntándoles qué dirían si hoy estuvieran contigo? Por favor, comparte esos pensamientos internos y miedos que llevas en tu corazón.
Al parecer, este tema está hecho para mí porque desde hace más de un año mi vida dio un giro de 360 grados e hice cosas que jamás pensé y me he enfrentado a situaciones que las he podido afrontar por los consejos de la persona que más me amó en la vida y que hoy no está a mi lado.
Cuando estoy sola respondo a mis pensamientos de la manera que mi madre me enseñó. Siempre aplico los conocimientos y enseñanzas que en vida ella me inculcó.
Para que quien me lee tenga una idea les cuento que en 2023 emigré de mi país hacia Uruguay y ahora estoy de paso en otro país, con el objetivo de asentarme definitivamente en otro país.
Sin embargo, he pasado por dificultades, algunos maltratos, muchas necesidades que más que económicas son emocionales. También he tenido ganas de desistir y volver, pero, cuando pienso en las necesidades y carencias y que no podré ayudar a mi familia sigo hacia mi objetivo.
En esos momentos de flaquezas hablo con mi madre y siempre me dice que aplique la fórmula de la familia:
•No desistir por fuertes que sean los contratiempos
•Fortaleza mental porque todo está ahí
•Amor, fe y esperanza
•Luchar por nuestros sueños
En esos momentos de flaqueza ella siempre me aconseja y pone el ejemplo del trabajo que tuvo que pasar para criar a sus seis hijos, las veces que tuvo que dejar de alimentarse bien para darnos lo mejor a nosotros y cómo, a pesar de todo eso, sus hijos crecieron y se desarrollaron muy bien.
Pero, a pesar de todo tengo miedos que se entrecruzan en el camino de mis metas y objetivos. Por ejemplo:
•Tengo miedo de mi nostalgia familiar y que me haga incumplir mi objetivo de ayudar económicamente a mi familia.
•Siento temor de no ser capaz de dar la talla en esta tarea que emprendí.
•Tengo miedo de los maltratos de que pueda ser víctima por vivir como emigrante en otro país.
•Tengo dudas de mi capacidad como mujer para enfrentar este gran desafío en un país extranjero.
A pesar de mis miedos mi madre siempre está conmigo. Su fuerza, su valor y su capacidad de superar las dificultades son los pilares que hacen que siga adelante en este empeño de encontrar el mejor futuro posible para mí y mi familia.
Importante: Las imágenes son de mi propiedad, tomadas con mi teléfono Samsung Galaxy.
He utilizado el traductor DeepL Translate.
Love it when later in life we look back to realize how very much our mothers shared their experiences quietly empowering us to keep going. Always treasure the whispers now long gone still giving direction!
!LUV
!LADY
That's how it is.
The saddest thing is that when we have them in life we do not get to see the great value and need for them. Thank you for your words and for the initiative.
Bigger picture always appears once they are gone, still hear the echo of warnings from deep within. !WINEX
!LADY
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