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Espero se encuentren muy bien, es mi primera vez publicando en esta linda comunidad y nada mejor que hacerlo en este concurso do de se nos presentan 2 preguntas y podemos elegir cuál responder, sería genial ver participar a la hermosa amiga @joyousglory
@mikalonny
@isgledysduarte para que nos cuenten a cerca de cómo manejan las críticas o como se divierten, al final del post dejaré el link del concurso original. Ahora comencemos con mi pregunta a responder ¿ Como manejo las correcciones o críticas de otras personas?
Como maneja yuliet16 las correcciones de otras personas?
Para comenzar puedo decirles que éstas 2 palabras tienen significado diferente, podemos decir que cuando se nos corrige es para ayudarnos a mejorar, y se deja notar una preocupación hacia nosotros, pero cuando se nos crítica es una cuestión de desinterés porque pueden hacerlo con diferentes intenciones.
Por lo tanto como manejo las correcciones? Lo hago de una forma muy humilde, y pienso si esta persona se toma el tiempo para corregir mi mal proceder es porque realmente desea que mejore en mi actuar, entonces valoro esa pequeña o gran intención y preocupación por mi, y trato de captar muy bien sus consejos y sugerencias para poner en práctica dicha corrección. Luego es mi deber ser muy agradecida con las personas que me corrigen y a traves de palabras sinceras y muy amables les doy las gracias, pero la parte más importante de ser agradecida con ellos es demostrarles con mis nuevas acciones lo mucho que valoro sus correcciones. Es lindo saber que otros se preocupen por nosotros así que podemos ser lindas personas siendo agradecidos con ellos.
Ahora como manejo las críticas?
Bueno! Si la crítica es constructiva les aseguro que voy a tener la misma actitud que con las correcciones, porque una crítica constructiva puede ayudar mucho al crecimiento personal y profesional de muchos, y particularmente soy de las personas que se esmera por mejorar sola y lo hago mucho mejor si alguien más me hace ver si voy bien o no .
Pero si la crítica es destructiva puedo notarlo siempre después de un tiempo y es aquí donde pacientemente decido concentrarme en mis proyectos y a fijarme bien en el crecimiento que he tenido para darme cuenta si voy bien o no, también consulto con personas de experiencia en la materia de lo que se me está criticando y si veo que la critica fue realizada con mala intención entonces no la tomo en cuenta y trato de dejar eso a un lado, no permitiendo que afecte mis emociones y dejando en manos del tiempo y de los posibles resultados que se den cuenta si realmente lo estoy haciendo bien. Este tipo de críticas siempre me dejan un aprendizaje y es que me muestran quienes son de verdad amigos y a quiénes les desagrada tu éxito .
Podemos ver qué la actitud ante la pregunta planteada es muy importante y como seres pensantes y racionales tenemos el deber de escuchar y observar antes de actuar por alguna corrección o crítica, está fue mi humilde entrada, estaré ansiosa de leer las sugerencias para seguir avanzando de forma positiva tanto en la comunidad como en la blockchain.
Ingles
I hope you are very well, it's my first time posting in this beautiful community and nothing better than doing it in this contest where we are presented with 2 questions and we can choose which one to answer, it would be great to see the beautiful friend @joyousglory participate.
@mikalonny
@isgledysduarte to tell us about how they handle criticism or how they have fun, at the end of the post I will leave the link to the original contest. Now let's start with my question to answer: How do I handle other people's corrections or criticisms?
How does yuliet16 handle other people's corrections?
To begin with I can tell you that these 2 words have different meanings, we can say that when we are corrected it is to help us to improve, and it shows a concern towards us, but when we are criticized it is a matter of disinterest because they can do it with different intentions.
So how do I handle corrections? I do it in a very humble way, and I think that if this person takes the time to correct my bad behavior it is because he really wants me to improve in my performance, then I value that small or big intention and concern for me, and I try to grasp very well his advice and suggestions to put into practice such correction. Then it is my duty to be very grateful to the people who correct me and through sincere and very kind words I thank them, but the most important part of being grateful to them is to show them with my new actions how much I value their corrections. It is nice to know that others care about us so we can be nice people by being grateful to them.
Now how do I handle criticism?
Well! If the criticism is constructive I assure you that I will have the same attitude as with the corrections, because constructive criticism can help a lot to the personal and professional growth of many, and I am particularly one of those people who strives to improve alone and I do it much better if someone else makes me see if I'm doing well or not.
But if the criticism is destructive I can always notice it after a while and it is here where I patiently decide to concentrate on my projects and look closely at the growth I have had to realize if I am doing well or not, I also consult with people with experience in the field of what I am being criticized and if I see that the criticism was made with bad intentions then I do not take it into account and try to leave that aside, not allowing it to affect my emotions and leaving it in the hands of time and possible results to realize if I am really doing well. This type of criticism always leaves me a learning experience and it is that it shows me who are true friends and who dislikes your success.
We can see what the attitude to the question posed is very important and as thinking and rational beings we have the duty to listen and observe before acting by any correction or criticism, this was my humble entry, I will be eager to read the suggestions to continue moving forward in a positive way both in the community and in the blockchain.
Muchas gracias por su atención y apoyo, estaré apoyando gustosamente otras participaciones
Thank you very much for your attention and support, I will gladly support other participations.
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Thanks for sharing and
good luck with the contest.
Thank you very much for the welcome, I am very happy to find this space where I am sure I will feel very comfortable.
I promise to learn very quickly and to support many girls and that together we continue to grow in this ecosystem.
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Thanks to you for dedicating time to my content, it motivates me to keep moving forward.
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It's true that most people correct others because they want them to improve. But there are those who only do them because they want to belittle the other person completely and these sucks.
For this reason we must be very cautious and discern whether the correction was with good or bad intentions, although our humility will always make us look good in front of everyone.
Thank you for your kind visit, it is very motivating for me as I am just starting in this ecosystem.
Yes, that's true, sometimes, humility sets in because we want to look good.
Yeah, you are welcome, welcome to the space too. 😍
Very true and we can actually feel and see whether one is genuine or not when trying to correct us in our mistakes. These are the people that we want in our lives because they help us become better :)
Thank you @yuliet16 for sharing your thoughts with us :) I wish you a fabulous day💗
Thank you very much for your nice visit, it is very true that we want people in our lives who help us to be better, it is very pleasing to read this encouraging message from you. I wish you many blessings and success in your projects.
You are very welcome, pleasure to read you and exchange thoughts as well :) Thank you for your good wishes and I do wish you the same :) Cheers!
Las criticas destructivas no ayudan, al contrario hacen mal a quien la recibe y a quien la da. Por eso es mejor hacer criticas desde el amor, desde el corazón y con buenas palabras.
Así es cariño, toda palabra dicha de forma amorosa puede dar buenos resultados, aún cuando sea una corrección , gracias por tu amable comentario, es muy importante para mí que estoy iniciando en este ecosistema .
Excelente post y reflexión con respecto al tema @yuliet16
Te felicito 🌸💞🤗🌼
Bienvenida a esta hermosa comunidad
Muchas gracias cariño por sacar tiempo y leer mi publicación 💞