Hello Ladies of hive. This will be my first post in this community. I am reading some post about women and I can say to be a woman is really amazing. And I am happy because I am a woman.
To be a woman isn't easy right? We tend to be a good model to everyone especially to the young ones. Every actions we make, there will be lots of say from other people. And I, being the eldest of the family and a daughter, I need to make a good role to show my siblings so that they'll follow what I am been doing with my life or they can mirror everything that happens to me which they can apply for themselves.
I have one brother and two sisters. And as their eldest, I should show to my sisters how to be a good daughter for them to learn from me. And being the eldest, it's hard coping the situation as I always felt afraid of getting or having a mistake because my siblings might follow what I did. I don't need to be a perfect daughter but I should always look before I leap and do what I think is right.
And as the eldest of the family, I have lots of dreams that I want to achieve in life not just for me but for my family. One of my dreams in life is to finish my studies and wear a university uniform and a toga for graduation. I wasn't able to continue college right after graduated in high school because of financial problem of the family. Being a child from not rich family is kinda hard in achieving dreams because we need to struggle and be strong facing the world just to reach out dreams in life. So, I waited 5 years to be in college. When I able to save money from working as a saleslady in my uncle's store.
The Best Clothes I worn.
And university uniform is one of the clothes that I've been dreaming for as this is one of the best clothes I want to wear. And the day that I wore the said uniform made me feel the fire to continue what I've started. True, life in college was hard. It's not just about getting to school to show your capability but to know where and how long you will endure the survival state in college. It's all about survival to reach the peak.
This is my photo when I first worn my university uniform.
Within the journey of my college life, I can say there were lits of hindrances and trials that I've faced. I shed a lot of tears not only because I am having difficulties in school because of projects and contributions to pay but also my family faced critical problems that made me fell into depression. But because I am so eager to continue my studies and finished it to have diploma and degree, I faced and conquer those montsers of my life. With the help of course of the support of those peoole who loves me. And atleast I able to wear the practicum uniform for teaching. And I able to let my parents attend the pin ceremony of our name tags and it was the first start to let them feel proud of me. My father was the one who went to stage to pin my name tag.
With ny father dearest in the photo, I'm so haggard but happy.
Within my praticum, I was also tested if I am really in the right track of the course I've got into. And I can say that the calling was really there and this is what I want. To be a teacher. After the practicum, I was so happy and so proud of myself as I able to reach the peak of the dreams in my life. This is just one of my dreams that I able to reach.
And seeing my parents during the recognition and graduation being so happy and teary eyed, I can say that I made them proud as their eldest daughter. Many things happened and a lot of discouragement words from our relatives but I able to conquer those all.
And here are the photos during our ringhop and graduation. My mom was the one with me during the ringhop and my father during my hooding ceremony and giving medal during my graduation as one of the Latin honors.
My thoughts
They said before, as a woman it's okay not to reach your dream in finishing your studies because you will just be a mom in the future. A mom that need to take care of children and serve your husband. But, I want to change what their mindset was. I've always heard that from my relatives before. And for me, as woman we have many things we can do to support our family and husband not just through taking care of the children and tied at home. We can also support them through working and we able to help them financially also. As a woman, I don't want to be dependent to my parents and husband, as I want to be of help. That is why I aim to wear those clothes.
And I am also hoping that my siblings will able to wear those. My brother is already a fourth year student in college, I do hope he will able to finish his studies also same with our sisters.
And now that I able to wear those, I do hope that one of this days, I will able to wear teacher's uniform. When I able to wear the teacher's uniform someday, my dream will be fulfilled perfectly not only for me, but for my parents and for my family.
That's all ladies and hivers, thank you for passing by and reading my post. Have a nice day everyone.
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Awww marenggffff College Uniform and Toga, yan ang sakin. Di ko rin akalain na makakasuot ako ng toga kasi nagtapos ako ng High School I dont have any plan ee. Then Mom heard about the newly open PUP branch here in our place so they push me to try it. Lucky me nakapasok naman ako ehe. Tho late ap rin naka grad talaga huehye.
Same tayo marengs late na naka grad pero atleast nuh nakapag suot din talaga. As in subra inggit ko dati kapag nakikita ko mga kaklase ko nung high school na naka uniform. Umiiyak pa ko nun hihi akalain mo naman kasi ang 5 yrs na stop huhu
Tama tama, thats whats important naaipyak at napasaya kp din ang mommy kahit papaano ehehe.
Yiee the next dress you will about to become favourite is your wedding gown besfren. 😍
Hahahaba soon na yan yung hinihintay ko yung teacher's uniform talaga sa ngayon 🤣
I wish you success in achieving your dream of one day wearing the Teacher's uniform @zbabe ❤️
Thank you @kerrislravenhill ,🤗
Hopefully this year I will able to. Thank you for reading 💚
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studying and graduating is a very important achievement, especially when you are a woman, facing problems and getting ahead is admirable
!LADY
Thank you @irenenavarroart
Those trials I faced are my stepping stone not to quit because I don't want to experience again those problems in the future. ☺️
"Bravo!" to you for what you have accomplished, and wanting to change the mindset1 💜
Thank you @ladiesofhive 🤗
Need to change tk mindset if we seen soemthing wrong😌
Ayiee. Teachers uniform na sunod, then wedding gown na. Sakin after 4 years pa bago ko masuot toga ko, magpapa enroll pa ako next week.
Oks lang yan marengs. Mabilis lang panahon eh hihihi. Laban 🤗
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