This is really cool. I think I share the same ideas with you but with a little difference in the aspect of getting married in an open space. I wish I could make is more restricted and simple. Particularly to save cost, control crowd, enjoy my wedding rather than organizing a show for crowd. However, my parents have a lot to achieve and show case. Parents deserve to feel the pride of announcing to the world their children are marking an important event. Lol.
I've never fancied a big wedding, sometimes I wonder if they save anything to start the life in marriage